Is it worth it?

[itylernallen]

Well school just started back up, and my friend appeared back in town. Ever since I met her I liked her as more than a friend, and it just sorta grew over time....... We're real close to each other, and trust each other with all our problems.

Is it worth possibly loosing her as a friend, by asking her out? I mean if she rejected me we'd be fine, but if it went somewhere and we got in an argument.... I'm afraid of loosing her.

Should I go for it? Or just stay friends and not risk it?
I really want to, but she's so close if I lost her it's like loosing family to me.

I had a same issue like this once, but it was not with a girl, however when I asked the person if they liked me as well it did not ruin our relationship at all. Honestly it made it better, because even tho we did not go out it releaved some personal strain on myself. It was like almost as a weight was lifted from my mind.

I think you should just tell her how you feel about her and see if she likes you the same way.

One thing I have to say, its always better to know then not to know. I mean that by saying that I would rather have you ask her our and know how she feels then to never know at all and leave all the questions filling you up inside.

Believe me, you'll feel much better when or if you ask her, but I can say all I want, its your decision your going to have to make. I just want to make it easier for you to figure out which one.

Good luck mate and please keep me posted.