09-15-2010, 07:07 PM
I would say something dumb like "pure love will only ever breed happiness and positivity," but that's complete bullshit and I can't believe I even thought of that myself.
So I'm going to leave you this, instead, as unhelpful as it is.
j
If you love her, you'll wait for her. If she loves you, you can trust her. Love is supposed to be hard. It's supposed to hurt. It's supposed to make you want to tear your hair from your scalp and stab something. What makes it love instead of attraction or infatuation is the willingness to go through the pain and trials. Your get to choose whether or not the crap that happens actually impacts your mood, and if you'd honestly rather not deal with the bad, then you don't love her, and your suffering is useless. Choose to either rejoice in the future and love her through everything or choose to give it up.
Love is the product of choices.
So I'm going to leave you this, instead, as unhelpful as it is.
j
If you love her, you'll wait for her. If she loves you, you can trust her. Love is supposed to be hard. It's supposed to hurt. It's supposed to make you want to tear your hair from your scalp and stab something. What makes it love instead of attraction or infatuation is the willingness to go through the pain and trials. Your get to choose whether or not the crap that happens actually impacts your mood, and if you'd honestly rather not deal with the bad, then you don't love her, and your suffering is useless. Choose to either rejoice in the future and love her through everything or choose to give it up.
Love is the product of choices.