Moving on more than 2 years after breakup

[nadiak]

Hi Bella,,

what youhave described is exactly what i am going through for 2 1/2 years now,ihave not managed to moveon and have been crying all this time for my ex who i thought was the one and we nearly had a family together.I am emotionally drained and try to pick myself upagain and
again but nothhing works.

Can you please tellme if you moved on and you are happynow? Thats alli am trying tobe, but it seems so hard. I am o 32 and have so much fears of staying alone with no family,which i want so much. I am uncapable of liking another man,and i seeem tobe invisibble to begin with. I am goign to try to talk to a therapist,i delayed itfor years, and now i think its time to go ahead with it.

I would really apprecciate it if you replied,

Nadia

[MStein]

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[alananichole]

IrishBella, I too have been through a life shaking break up and am just now at 2yrsAD (afterdivorce) still cry a lot hate him a lot more because I am madly in love with him and want him to leave his girlfriend and come back home to our family we made that he pretends doesn't exist. And bottomline I need to know how this last year since posting has been for you?

[Annmorris]

Grieving over your lost love for a short time is understandable, but if you linger too long in the purgatory of how-it-used-to-be, then it's not right anymore. You know that you really ought to start getting on with life and move on. Every day starts with that intention. Read on.. Surviving a breakup