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(07-30-2011, 02:44 PM)Believable Wrote: Sometimes, if you can't just your partner, then that is what can build a bad relationship, I know it would be very hard, but if she doesn't let you do what you want and if you don't stop her from doing so, she'll end up controlling your life, and I'm sure you don't want that.
I realize it's hard to lose the ones you love, but you have to think of the bigger picture, think outside the box and look down the line a few years and realize what could happen if you two carry on that way.
I think you two should have a nice, mature and long conversation about everything and anything you two want to say, I feel it would be the best thing for this situation.
I need to get in that mindstate, but every time I don't get to the conversation. I'm trusted by her and I have very strong feelings for her. It makes it very hard to thing straight. Every time I think it got to stop but then we meet and it's just, I can't explain.
Having a relationship like this is nearly impossible, but I just can't break it...
I will have a talk with her tomorrow I hope it will get some results, else I don't know how I should do it.
Thanks.
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(07-30-2011, 02:58 PM)FML brah Wrote: I need to get in that mindstate, but every time I don't get to the conversation. I'm trusted by her and I have very strong feelings for her. It makes it very hard to thing straight. Every time I think it got to stop but then we meet and it's just, I can't explain.
Having a relationship like this is nearly impossible, but I just can't break it...
I will have a talk with her tomorrow I hope it will get some results, else I don't know how I should do it.
Thanks.
I understand what you're saying, but as I've said your best bet is to talk to her, find the place where you're most comfortable to talk to her, and then just summon up your strength and spit it out, but before you do, and if you have problems saying anything to her, just think that if you don't talk to her it may end up bad for the both for you. At least if you talk to her then it's out there in the air, whatever happens after that is then up to her, and if she truly loves you, she will see that it's making you uncomfortable and she will realize what she's doing is wrong.
I see what you're saying, I know it's hard to talk to her when it can have so many outcomes, but just try to think of the positives, and try and get in a good state of mind, a honestly hope everything becomes well between the both of you, I can't really offer much more advice about this situation, if there's a different question regarding the situation, don't be afraid to ask.
-Believable
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(07-30-2011, 03:05 PM)Believable Wrote: I understand what you're saying, but as I've said your best bet is to talk to her, find the place where you're most comfortable to talk to her, and then just summon up your strength and spit it out, but before you do, and if you have problems saying anything to her, just think that if you don't talk to her it may end up bad for the both for you. At least if you talk to her then it's out there in the air, whatever happens after that is then up to her, and if she truly loves you, she will see that it's making you uncomfortable and she will realize what she's doing is wrong.
I see what you're saying, I know it's hard to talk to her when it can have so many outcomes, but just try to think of the positives, and try and get in a good state of mind, a honestly hope everything becomes well between the both of you, I can't really offer much more advice about this situation, if there's a different question regarding the situation, don't be afraid to ask.
-Believable
Thanks for your good advice, I almost forgot that not every forum is loaded with trolls ;)
Nice steps have to come from me, I'm going to tell her and try to work out a solution to the problem. Thanks for the replies.
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Oh man I know how you feel , GL IPK
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If I were you I would just tell her as honest as possible. It is better to let your feelings out than to keep them inside and be frustrated without her knowing.
You really just need to say that you need your own space every now and then and if she is not fine with that then tell her to be more reasonable.
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(07-30-2011, 03:55 PM)Launcher Wrote: If I were you I would just tell her as honest as possible. It is better to let your feelings out than to keep them inside and be frustrated without her knowing.
You really just need to say that you need your own space every now and then and if she is not fine with that then tell her to be more reasonable.
Already covered it in much more detail Launcher. 
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Speak up. Defend yourself.
Personal space.
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Hey man, I'm sorry to hear about your dilemma, but you just gotta put your foot down. When it comes to chicks, they like a man, not a boy. When they're able to control you, it ends there. Girls are only looking for a challenge when it comes to a relationship.
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Tell her what you need to tell her
If she really loves you, she wouldn't
Care what your problems are and accept you
For who you are .
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(07-30-2011, 07:59 PM)Believable Wrote: Already covered it in much more detail Launcher.
Yup I see that now. I was in a rush to get out the door anyway so it was a quick response. Also there should be no problem with more advice even if it is the same because that just gives more reinforcement on the same idea and may show that it really is the best option or a good option at that. =]
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