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(04-14-2011, 10:19 PM)The Holy crap. Wrote: I fully agree, I cannot stand when another person gets in the way of a relationship. My "Best Friend" came to me with every single little problem she had with her ex, and although I wanted to say "Just break up with him, and go out with me :3" I held back, and gave her some advice that I would have done if I was in her position (Which happened to be break up with him). She ignored everything, and guess what happened... He broke up with her, now she's the one sitting there mopping around all day saying she still "Loves" him.
I would do the exact same thing, beat the living crap out of this kid if he did have something to do with you two breaking up, that's not something a guy should do to someone, especially another guy. I hope everything returns to normal for you, and you two get back to dating, you seem very heartbroken, and that's not a place anyone should be.
Well, I do have a soft spot lol, everyone does I think I've decided that i'm going to try and get her back tomorrow, I've planned out what i'm going to say, and i'm going to make it completely up to her whether she wants this to work or not. I have a way to say how I think it wasn't working before and how I'm pretty sure it will work if she gave me another chance, but i'm not going to beg for this. Even if she says no, she doesn't want to, i'll still get the answers I want as to why she believes it won't work, and then I can move on. If she says yes, then it's all about the communication, and hopefully things will go back to normal again, in a better way, if we both work on it a little more.
I would have just asked her why it wasn't working before, without trying to get back with her like i'm doing tomorrow, but that's only if I feel that this wouldn't work. I think it could have worked perfectly if little changes were made, very very minor issues really. So i'm going to let her know that i'm willing to change, and how I truly feel about the situation, and see what she has to say about it too. Either way, in my mind i'm not worried about the "No"... I still walk out as a winner really. If not, I can move on, if so, then I can be happy for my accomplishment and we can move forward again
Starting to get in a better state of mind now, so i'm really not feeling too bad about it right now. That's good too, I put a lot of effort into going out, doing the things I like to do, hanging with new people, and all of that just to get back on track, and i'm pretty much heading in the right direction to get back to being myself again, regardless about this girl situation.
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(04-14-2011, 10:27 PM)Infinity Wrote: Well, I do have a soft spot lol, everyone does I think I've decided that i'm going to try and get her back tomorrow, I've planned out what i'm going to say, and i'm going to make it completely up to her whether she wants this to work or not. I have a way to say how I think it wasn't working before and how I'm pretty sure it will work if she gave me another chance, but i'm not going to beg for this. Even if she says no, she doesn't want to, i'll still get the answers I want as to why she believes it won't work, and then I can move on. If she says yes, then it's all about the communication, and hopefully things will go back to normal again, in a better way, if we both work on it a little more.
I would have just asked her why it wasn't working before, without trying to get back with her like i'm doing tomorrow, but that's only if I feel that this wouldn't work. I think it could have worked perfectly if little changes were made, very very minor issues really. So i'm going to let her know that i'm willing to change, and how I truly feel about the situation, and see what she has to say about it too. Either way, in my mind i'm not worried about the "No"... I still walk out as a winner really. If not, I can move on, if so, then I can be happy for my accomplishment and we can move forward again
Starting to get in a better state of mind now, so i'm really not feeling too bad about it right now. That's good too, I put a lot of effort into going out, doing the things I like to do, hanging with new people, and all of that just to get back on track, and i'm pretty much heading in the right direction to get back to being myself again, regardless about this girl situation.
Well, Hopefully she says yes, but if she does say no, then atleast you get your answers, and you can move on with your life.
I do hope things work out between you two.
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Good
Iv lived with my current GF for few months now. Were been togerther for almost 4 years and everything is going cool.
We just got new cat and umm.. yeah.
Only thing im missing is job, my gf has one but i dont. But i will get one in the future for sure ;)
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really crap
hoping to find someone soon
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In my love live it is very quiet :p, a year ago a had an awesome girl but she changed alot. Sometimes i miss her and sometimes i hate her = guaranteed mindfuck
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(04-16-2011, 08:17 AM)dudesons123 Wrote: In my love live it is very quiet :p, a year ago a had an awesome girl but she changed alot. Sometimes i miss her and sometimes i hate her = guaranteed mindfuck
I could understand how this could get very frustrating. Having confused emotions like this is always annoying lol
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Not so good at the moment. But we are working through things.. hopefully.
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good, seeing as there's options but i'm not exactly looking atm. the less you think about it and stress yourself out the happier youll be when things do come around in your favor.
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Sometimes you gotta pass some bad ones to find good one, if you get what i mean.
If your not lucky with the girls, just wait and you will find someone. For sure!
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Well, I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl I like, but I'm pretty careful, I don't want to screw anything up.
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