When do you tell a woman you love her

[Untouch]

Well if you are going to ask her out i think it should definately involve her daughter as well.
Maybe if you join options C and D together it would be nice.

[Dcrac23]

Well if you are going to ask her out i think it should definately involve her daughter as well.
Maybe if you join options C and D together it would be nice.

I thought so too. But It's gonna be a min before I see her. I can't send her an Email asking for her number b/c our Boss will get mad at me and her and we can't have that. Hell I don't even know where they live.

[Guest]

Hello, I say take her out for ice cream. Take them to see a park and ducks. I am a single mother and many men never wanted to see my daughter, let alone spend real time with her. The mother is probably VERY afraid you will not bond with the child and this must be her first concern- that, and making sure you aren't sexually after her little girl. After that, she may lighten up and befriend you. Income is not important, nor age, but self esteem is, and you show that by being genuine, caring and real. The best date I had with my date, who was also younger than me, was to take $4.00 into 7-Eleven to buy "Dinner for two" then go watch sun down on the beach. We ended up with strawberry milk and two hotdogs and the best date of my life because it was fun and unconventional.
The lesson is this: focus on being a great and riving person. Nothing else will matter. If you can do that, she will love you back.

[SeePlusPlus]

When you're absolutely certain you love her.

[AceInfinity]

When you're certain you do. Even better if you think she does too.

I think this was the simplest way of putting it, but also one of the best. There's no time limit that says after a week/month/year that you now have the ability to tell a woman you love her. You have to believe it, and if you feel that she feels the same way, then go for it.

[monique12345]

From a female perspective, i can agree to many who have stated that if you love her, then say it. When you next see her, ask her out and ask her for her advice on whether she would like to bring her daughter along. Keep in mind, that she may not want to as children do attach themselves to individuals and the last thing any mother wants is to introduce every date she has with a man. You seem like a very down to earth guy who genuinely likes if not loves this woman. Why not spend a bit of time with her and then after reevaluating your feelings (they may not stay the same) tell her if you still feel in love. There is a difference with being in love and loving a person. As for what to do on your date. A nice thing could be is to give her a card with 3 options and your telephone number. She can either call you which option she likes or when you give her this card, arrange to meet for a coffee the next day. It is unconventional, cute and it allows her to have some freedom in what and how she wants to do this (with or without her daughter). The fact that you recognise that she comes as a package will be very appreciated and you will be further respected by mindy to give her the right to decide what is best for her daughter and their relationship. if you like any more advice, just PM me. Follow your heart and show your considerate nature which you are already displaying here online.

[Mao]

A lot of you may disagree with me, but I believe that being in love is a decision.
I think you should tell her when you are certain, and sure of your decision.

[mladen190]

take her out on fancy dinner talk about some things and shoot!

[AceInfinity]

take her out on fancy dinner talk about some things and shoot!

But you can say it to her anywhere, why a fancy dinner?

[RazaShaw]

Only once she loves you back, not the other way or it is wierd.