Why does he lie?

[Frostbite]

Yes~ Posting here was such a good idea. Thank you all so much. Everyone here made me feel happy with who I am, and relax. Maybe I'll get a good night's sleep.

[RANA]

have happy dreams

[null_trace18]

I'm not going to let my confidence go down the drain. I've heard plenty of times that I'm hot as hell, so it really will be his loss.

Well do you have any pictures so we can judge for ourselves? lol A lot of friends tell their friends they're hot, it's the friendly thing to do lol. But if you have stranger tell you you're hot then thats a different story. lmao I sound like a pedo.

[Frostbite]

I'm 19 so you can't be a pedo. And yeah sure, I can show you a picture.

Picture!

[null_trace18]

I'm 19 so you can't be a pedo. And yeah sure, I can show you a picture.

Picture!

Lmao I turn 19 on the 18th of December so in fact you are the pedo!?! I'm telling my mom. lmao
But honestly, you actually look very pretty, I'm not gonna use hot because it's degrading, but I don't know why anyone would want to be unfaithful with you.
You're right though, it is his loss.

[Frostbite]

oh noes! Not the mommy police! I'll go into hiding.

Thankies. I actually prefer hearing that over hot. Makes me feel less like those objectified women that do porn and crap.

[null_trace18]

oh noes! Not the mommy police! I'll go into hiding.

Thankies. I actually prefer hearing that over hot. Makes me feel less like those objectified women that do porn and crap.

Well, I actually respect women rather than treat them as if they were objects and degrade them. I know it's hard to believe since I'm a guy an all, but I do.

[Frostbite]

That's a good thing. Don't ever let that change.

[Solidify]

Only trust people as far as you can throw them.

I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago with my girlfriend. At the time, we'd only been seeing each other for a little over 2 months and she had already planned a trip to Cuba with two of her friends; one of which is a complete nympho. As you can imagine, one week in Cuba is straight partying day and night and despite how much she told me nothing would happen and that she was all mine, I was still stressed out the entire week back home. My friends tried to reassure me that she wouldn't do anything stupid and she's a smart girl but I was just set on being on a downer.

When she returned, I found out that nothing happened from her other friend. I was really relieved to hear that.

I guess what I'm saying is that you don't owe your boyfriend trust; he needs to earn it. If he hasn't done anything to show you that you can trust him, don't. If he has, you need to keep tabs. Sure, everyone lies but there are such things are white lies that people hold against each other in order to prevent greater hardship. now, I don't supposed lying about porn constitutes a white lie nor do I know how lying about it could have saved you from being hurt from something else but you can't be sure until you confront him about it. You never know.

All I'm saying is lies aren't always made with foul intentions. Don't even assume anything in a relationship. If you're not sure, ask your partner.

Don't give them your trust until they earn it.

[Death Trap™]

I don't think watching porn is really that bad at all and I bet most guys only do it for self-pleasure. This doesn't mean he will actually cheat on you. Since he is a guy, probably he won't admit because you might scold him because your his gf yet he watches porn. Since you said you will let him do this own thing, you should ask him this question "Baby would you ever cheat on me, honestly?" Maybe that would help put you a little at ease. If he does, it would be his loss that he wasn't the one for you. Seeing your picture, you seems to be quite pretty that I hope he treats you right. You know everyone deserves their best. If you ever feel he is suspicious, confront him and ask. Never assume anything. You might be misunderstand and cause the relationship to go under tension. This will lead to trust issues. Good luck.