Really into this girl but is it worth the pain

[tomynho]

Okay so I have fallen for this girl big time. Most of my recent relationships have led me to pain and hurt feelings and just not fun stuff.

She has a boyfriend right now so I am not planning to go out with her right now, but she likes me too. I feel kind of hopeless in this position because I feel so much of this feeling that I don't really get that much anymore.. yet my heart makes me feel sad because I am scared to put myself out there because girls have broken be down bad before where it's just got real bad.

I just am really scared to tell her my feelings (romantically because we both know we like each other, but have never really sat and got really serious about it ) and get hurt. I don't want to end up how I have before. I really like her, but at the same time it's almost putting me into depression.

My heart can be one of the best to have when I am in love, but it seems to get crushed more easily that way. I already feel really down.

I'm in exactly the same situation right now.
I won't have much time to do something because I'm in the (last) 9th grade.
Right now I'm just waiting for something to happen, or maybe see how things will go. I'd feel better if she'd single, but on the other hand, I don't want her to break up with her current bf.

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but she doesn't seem to be happy much.
She often puts sad mood messages on facebook & it seems like she's in bad mood to often. It's probably not his fault, but... Shouldn't a good bf help his gf to get feel better ?

[Terroz]

Since when have you started liking her? If only earlier, it is lust that is leading you.

[Flawless]

Dude tell her how you feel. I'm telling you, once you get that off your chest you are going to feel like a new man. Who knows? Maybe she will agree with you, you did say she likes you too.