Relationship Question

[macdonjo]

so this girl wanted to go out with me, but she wants to go out for dinner prior to being in a relationship. how should I act with her? should we be holding hands? i will certainly offer to pay, tips?

[Zurmi]

Hey macdonjo,

If I were you I would offer to pay and all of that. But I'm not too sure on the hand holding as you guys aren't technically together first. However, if she initiates it, by all means go for it.

I'm doing a bit of the same thing as you, except i'm going to Six Flags as opposed to dinner.

Let me know how it goes.

Regards,
Zurmi

[DAMINK™]

Just go out and have dinner. No commitments or expectations.
The only expectation you should have is to have a good time.
What ever eventuates beyond that is good.
But for now. Just go have dinner.
Ask her questions about herself.
Dont spend the whole dinner talking about yourself unless asked.
Be polite and friendly.
Thats about all you can do.

[NekoChan]

Go have a good time and a good dinnner.
Be polite and remember your manners.
If you want, you can take her hand, its not a big deal.
Don't offer, but pay for the dinner and say you don't take no for a answer.
After that send call her a cab or maybe send her home.

Kiss/hug and say you had a wonderful time.

[.Fr0z3n]

take her out to a fancy restaurant, talk about stuff, ask her if she's single, if yes: the rest is self-explanatory, if no: start spasming as loud as you can and try to pick a fight with the waiter

[macdonjo]

take her out to a fancy restaurant, talk about stuff, ask her if she's single, if yes: the rest is self-explanatory, if no: start spasming as loud as you can and try to pick a fight with the waiter

Did you read the thread? she wants to go out with me. yes she single.

[Flawless]

Alright heres what you are going to do.

Go out to dinner with her. Dress nice and take her somewhere nice. Don't hold hands or expect to be making out on the first date, unless she wants that and if she does let her take you there. Take her to dinner and act as if shes just one of your friends. Try to be yourself around her. This first date is your time to really get to know her. Start asking her questions about anything! Trust me once you start asking a woman a couple questions, they will go off for hours. When shes talking make eye contact with her and seem interested even if your not. Try to relate to what she is saying. Don't like the conversation end in an awkward silence, always try to respond after shes done talking, even if its starting a new subject. Of course you should pay for the meal at the end. Even if she insists that you let her pay half or anything like that, don't do it. Take her home and while you are or at the end of the dinner let her know how nice of a time you had and tell her that you would love to go out again with her if she was maybe up to it. Don't sound too pushy but let her know you like her. Pm me if you have any questions. Good luck<3

[superjoe128]

well go to dinner act smart don't be fake though remember to be yourself and you will be with her so quickly

[Unholy Faith]

Just be a gentleman the whole time.

If she's is thinking that, then she may tell you something. But just think of it as a friend thing, nothing sexual.

[Pink Floyd]

Dinner is always a great way to start off a relationship. First of all, watch your energy. I know that may sound stupid, but you don't want to put of any kind of dominant aura. Yes, tell her you will pay. (and pay obviously)

I wouldn't recommend holding her hand just yet, those moments are quite often best used after dinner. Most importantly, do NOT mislead her. If you are looking for sex, or just a small relationship with sexual activities, nothing serious, don't go out with her. That hurts girls, it's practically using them. I may be wrong, but I'd say most girls that ask to go on a date that involves dinner, are not interested in sex a few times. But that is certainly not true in all cases. So use your best judgment, and good luck.