10-16-2012, 08:29 AM
(This post was last modified: 10-16-2012, 08:43 AM by Lewis_Smith95.)
For those that don't know/remember me, read my old thread:
http://www.supportforums.net/showthread.php?tid=26213
Anyway, that video got her back, shortly after I made it which is a while now. But, I did the hardest thing I ever had to do... I ended it with her, it was a couple of months back now. I was unhappy, but being me I exaggerated everything and let it get out of hand which resulted in the death of the relationship unfortunately.
Shortly after breaking up (I mean very shortly), I made the mistake of getting another girlfriend. You can imagine what that did to my ex, and she stopped all communication. That's fine. A couple of weeks after the "new girl" I ended that too, I wasn't happy. Then found someone else, and recently ended it with her too.
Yesterday afternoon, after 2 months of no communication, I grew the balls to text my ex. I just started with a "hi", etc. We made small talk, I told her I missed her, and she admitted to missing me and my family and said she can't watch TV or go outside without something making her think of me. In some ways I thought that was good, I did manage to ask if she fancied meeting up, just for a general chat and she said "not yet sorry ". I'm guessing she thinks it's because she must still "love me". My dad reckons now that she knows I miss her and she had to admit to missing me, she will text me soon and agree to meet up, while I hope it's true, I'm not sure.
In the long run I'm hoping to get her back, but I'm unsure how to go about it this time. I know what a mistake I made, and I would be willing to try everything to resolve it. What would you suggest?
I can post up the screenshots of our conversation if you like.
http://www.supportforums.net/showthread.php?tid=26213
Anyway, that video got her back, shortly after I made it which is a while now. But, I did the hardest thing I ever had to do... I ended it with her, it was a couple of months back now. I was unhappy, but being me I exaggerated everything and let it get out of hand which resulted in the death of the relationship unfortunately.
Shortly after breaking up (I mean very shortly), I made the mistake of getting another girlfriend. You can imagine what that did to my ex, and she stopped all communication. That's fine. A couple of weeks after the "new girl" I ended that too, I wasn't happy. Then found someone else, and recently ended it with her too.
Yesterday afternoon, after 2 months of no communication, I grew the balls to text my ex. I just started with a "hi", etc. We made small talk, I told her I missed her, and she admitted to missing me and my family and said she can't watch TV or go outside without something making her think of me. In some ways I thought that was good, I did manage to ask if she fancied meeting up, just for a general chat and she said "not yet sorry ". I'm guessing she thinks it's because she must still "love me". My dad reckons now that she knows I miss her and she had to admit to missing me, she will text me soon and agree to meet up, while I hope it's true, I'm not sure.
In the long run I'm hoping to get her back, but I'm unsure how to go about it this time. I know what a mistake I made, and I would be willing to try everything to resolve it. What would you suggest?
I can post up the screenshots of our conversation if you like.