Meeting Girls... as friends. o_o

[bytem3]

Just treat them like normal people and it'll be fine. They'll only think you're hitting on them if they are ridiculously self-centered or if they want you.

[Scalise]

No means no? Lol, idk.

At least you'll have a bunch of booty calls. Just be up front and tell them you just want to be friends, they'll be understanding. And there's plenty of girls who feel the same way, not all of them are just looking for a hook-up lol.

[bytem3]

No means no? Lol, idk.

At least you'll have a bunch of booty calls. Just be up front and tell them you just want to be friends, they'll be understanding. And there's plenty of girls who feel the same way, not all of them are just looking for a hook-up lol.

Back when I had friends (lol), the vast majority were girls (I think i had maybe 2 guy friends). I think that most girls assume you just want to be friends and would be surprised (and perhaps a bit peeved) if a guy walked up to them stating outright that he 'only' wanted to be friends.

[Scalise]

Back when I had friends (lol), the vast majority were girls (I think i had maybe 2 guy friends). I think that most girls assume you just want to be friends and would be surprised (and perhaps a bit peeved) if a guy walked up to them stating outright that he 'only' wanted to be friends.

I'm not saying walk up and be like, "OH HEY, I'D LIKE TO KNOW YOU BUT DON'T EXPECT ME TO GO OUT WITH YOU", lol. Just talk to them and become friends, when it gets to that point and it's clear they want more, just tell them you're not interested and want to stay friends. I do it all the time, they don't get pissed, most are understanding. My philosophy is that if they're taking the time to get to know you they value your friendship and aren't looking for a quick hook-up.