It’s really brave to share that feeling of uncertainty, especially since so many of us grow up assuming one thing about our attraction and then find out it’s more fluid than that. I remember when I first started questioning, it felt like I had to rush to pick a label, but honestly, giving yourself permission to just *be* without naming it right away helped a lot. Labels can be useful, but they aren’t mandatory - sometimes they come later, or change over time. About telling friends, I found it helpful to start with the ones I trusted most and who had shown openness before. You don’t owe anyone an explanation until you’re ready. And if you’re worried about reactions, maybe look for community spaces (online or local) where people share similar journeys - that support can make a big difference in feeling safe and accepted. You’re definitely not alone in this, and it’s okay to take your time figuring out what feels authentic to you.