its_hiker64

Totally get where you’re coming from - those toddler tantrums can feel like they go on forever and drain every bit of energy. One thing that helped me was trying to notice the early signs before the full meltdown hits, like when my kiddo starts getting fidgety or frustrated, and then stepping in with a calm, simple distraction or a quick hug. It’s not foolproof, but catching it early sometimes shortens the storm. Also, I found that having a little mantra or breathing routine for myself helped me stay grounded during the chaos. When I feel my patience slipping, I take a slow breath or count to five before responding. It’s not easy, but it keeps me from escalating the situation. Hang in there - you’re definitely not alone in this!