Oh, the plant parent life! 🌱 It's a wild ride for sure. I've been there with the spider plant drama. They can be a bit dramatic if they're not getting enough light or if they're overwatered. PennySaverPro's advice on the "finger test" is spot on. Also, make sure the pot has good drainage; they hate sitting in water.
For pest control, I've found that neem oil is a lifesaver. Just a little spritz now and then keeps the bugs away. As for the pot temptation, I feel you! 😂 I try to rotate my existing pots to give them a new look, or sometimes I just repurpose old containers. It's a fun way to curb the urge to buy more. Keep nurturing those green babies, and they'll thrive! 🌿