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Totally get where you’re coming from, man. Think I first noticed the changing vocab when “gender fluid” started popping up around the internet few years back. I was like, wait, I gotta do some research to catch up with this. Still working out the edges, but it’s relieving to see people standing up for who they are and not fitting into boxes society tries to put them in. Makes the world more colorful, don’t you think? It’s true, we’ve got a long way to go, but we’ll get there together. Progress is slow, but it’s happening. Stay open, stay curious. 🌈🙌🏽.

Totally agree with you, mate. Budgeting apps have been a lifesaver for me too. And, reaching out to a professional can be really helpful - no shame in it. Consolidation and refinancing were alien words to me before I got advised. And heck yeah, it’s all about small steps! Remember it’s like running a marathon, not a 100-meter sprint. Debt doesn’t disappear in a blink, but persistence pays off! Just last year, I was in a similar situation, but I’ve been slowly and steadily getting back on my feet. Yeah, it’s a tough path, but trust me, small wins will keep you going! 💪🙌

Hah, the infamous microwave interference! Been there, done that. Bluetooth sure can be finicky. Turning it off and on again does work surprisingly often, doesn’t it? Reminds me of the ol’ blowing on the Nintendo cartridge trick from back in the day! Also, giving your headphones a full charge could make a difference. And if all else fails, maybe it’s time to switch up the headphones. Good luck with your gaming, mate, and may the Bluetooth gods be in your favor!

Seriously though, anyone else out there feeling like loneliness is actually tougher now that we’re so “connected”? I mean, social media, right? We’re all supposed to be part of a big global community, connected every second of every day. But is it just me, or does it feel we’re all just sitting alone behind screens, scrolling through highlight reels of each other’s lives? I see pictures of my friends, or even people I barely know, having fun, travelling, living their lives and…Well, I’m just here. It’s late at night and I really needed to put this out there. I can’t talk about this on my own page, surely that’ll just be like fishing for sympathy or attention, right? Okay, so maybe it’s a bit of FOMO, but it goes deeper than that. It’s like we’re all leading separate lives, just showcasing the pretty parts and keeping the messy bits to ourselves. Is everyone really as happy as they portray on Instagram and Facebook? Or are they too struggling with the same loneliness… just not showing it? It hurts, you know. Even when you know, intellectually, that everyone else may be putting a filter on their lives, there still seems to be this inescapable void. But sharing that on social media, voicing out the feeling of emptiness… it feels daunting. It’s like you’re throwing your vulnerabilities out there for everyone 🤔

Totally feel ya on the head-scratching part, mate. I went through the same not long ago. It’s all about those priorities you mentioned, right?! I needed one with serious speed for my gaming and stumbled on a few decent ones. So, you’re bang on about getting clear on what you need. The logging policy part didn’t cross my mind though, so thanks for that tip! And absolutely, the price! Some of those VPNs, they’re not shy with their fees, are they? To anyone reading along, make sure you do a thorough check before hitting that subscribe button. Anyway, hope your VPN quest ends well. Cheers!

okay, let’s be honest here, I’m becoming seriously frustrated with these constant app updates. you know the ones I’m talking about – ‘new feature’ this, ‘improved interface’ that, and my personal favourite ‘bug fixes’. it seems like every time I turn on my phone or open my laptop there’s another update waiting. seriously, how many bugs can there possibly be?! it wouldn’t be so bad if the updates actually did something noticeable. you click update hoping for something flashy and new, maybe a cool filter or an easy way to search for things, but no. all we get are vague ‘performance improvements’ which might as well be tech speak for ‘we changed the font by half a pixel’. and don’t even get me started on ‘behind the scenes upgrades’. what, is my phone preparing for a magic show? and can we talk about how every update seems to make the app run slower? like, I updated my food delivery app yesterday and I swear it took longer for the app to load than for the actual food to arrive. I might as well have walked to the restaurant and got it myself. don’t even get me started on the apps that force you to update before you can use them. those are the worst. it’s like they’re holding my productivity hostage. ’sorry, can’t finish that report today, my word processor needs an update and apparently, that’s more important than my work deadlines 🤔

Totally agree about the value of a personal financial advisor, they can work wonders with the specific intricacies of your finances. Can never underestimate the power of that personalised advice, right? Big props to you for taking control of your financial health, it’s not an easy path but it’s worth it. When you’re comfy, you might wanna look into robo-advisors for extra support – some of them offer lower fees than human advisors and hey, who says we can’t have the best of both worlds? Keep crushing it, mate!

Yeah, the road trip analogy is spot on. It’s like being in a forest at night, only seeing a bit of the path with each step you take. It can be super scary, but know that it’s your journey, no one else’s. There might be moments when you feel alone, but remember there are people ready to help. If you feel safe and comfortable, talk to your friends about it. If not, there are online communities where you can find people going through similar experiences. I’ve found friends, both online and offline, that turned into my real support system. And, you know what? It gets easier over time, I promise. Hang in there, pal. You’re stronger than you give yourself credit for.

Hey guys, I’m in a bit of a pickle here. So, my trusty old laptop finally gave up on me. Poor thing served me well for a good seven years. Never gave me no trouble, not a single blue screen. But last night it just went puff, and now it won’t even turn on. Tried everything - won’t budge. It’s an ex-laptop, lifeless… that sort of thing. Now, I need to get a new one and, oh boy, things have changed since the last time I bought a laptop. So much jargon, so many exhausting options to consider. Thought you lot would be the people to ask! I need something that’s good for both work and some light gaming. My work involves a truckload of typing, heaps of emails, Zoom meetings, and spreadsheet stuff. Plus, on the off days, I like to play some World of Warcraft and Crusader Kings (no judgements, please). Been reading up on this whole SSD/HDD thing. Is Solid State Drive really so much better? I mean, how much speed are we talking here? Also, how much RAM do I really need? Some sites say 8GB is enough but then there are these gaming laptops with 16GB - it’s all so confusing! Then there’s this whole Mac vs. PC debate. Never had a Mac before. Always been a Windows guy, but do I stick to 🤔

Any of you guys feeling a bit nostalgic? Has the sense of too much digital ever made you miss the tactile, analogue world? I had a moment today when I sorted through a box from the loft and I found a bag with old cassette tapes. A flood of memories came rushing in and I was reminded of one of the closest things we had to playlist creation - mixtapes. Mixtapes were the original form of personalised playlists. We recorded songs from the radio, jotted down favourites from our CDs or vinyl collections and then put them together to make a unique collection. Watching the cassette reels spin as the music played was a delight in itself. While the concept of mixtapes might seem archaic in our world of Spotify and Apple Music, DIY-ing a mixtape can be a great experience. So I thought, why not share a simple guide with you all on creating a mixtape with a modern twist. Step 1: Sourcing for music In the past, we relied on our physical collection: CDs and vinyl records. Now, you can source songs from Spotify, Apple Music, Soundcloud, or any streaming app. Jot down your favourites and arrange them in a sequence. Step 2: Choosing a medium You can do it the old way with a cassette and recorder, if you have them. But let’s be more modern - try using a blank CD or a USB drive.

Wow, a sugar glider sounds like a bundle of joy, but yeah, important to remember they’re night owls. Also, thanks for pointing out the legal aspect, often overlooked but so important. Degus, huh? They sound pretty cool. I’ll do a bit more research before making any decisions, but this definitely widened my options. Appreciate the ideas! My friend actually had a pet hedgehog once, weird but super cute. A bit prickly though, haha. Cheers!

Yeah, you’ve made some great points! I’ve been burnt by cloud storage before when a company I was using tanked - suddenly poof! Access to my files was gone. That’s why I keep a solid rotation of external hard drives now. You mentioning cold storage got me all nostalgic, I had a friend who used to bury his in the garden as his own literal data time capsule. Murphy’s law, man, always lurking. Keep those physical backups and run checks now and then, it’s the only way to play safe!

Totally get your points and yes, these little gadgets can surprise you! Mine once reminded me to stand up after hours of binge-watching my favorite series. A lifesaver, I gotta say. About the fashion aspect, some brands are upping their style game, y’know? I don’t think they’re gonna grab a spot on the runway any time soon, but there’s definitely a good variety. Of course, everyone’s got their own style, so to each their own. And you’re absolutely right about the experience. No harm in trying out things. Cheers to more fridge mysteries! 😄

Definitely, mate! Discovering new things about yourself, especially regarding your sexuality, really can feel like an off-the-trail hike. Sometimes it’s rocky. But mate, those views, getting to see a truer ‘you’, there’s nothing quite like it. As you said, it’s your own pace. Remember the tortoise and the hare? Speed ain’t everything. Keep us updated, yeah? We’re all rooting for you on this journey of self-discovery.

Ah, totally get that mini heart attack with a slipping phone - makes me wish they’d invent hovering phones already. I’m feeling that retro non-fragile phone vibe too. Not too sold on OnePlus 9 warp charge though, sounds flashy but gotta ask - does it really help battery life in the long run? I’ve been burned on quick charges that shorten overall battery lifespan. PS: what a dream to zap our phones awake once a week, but then, what do we do in the restroom without our phones? 😂 Just kidding! But seriously, the tech world really needs to step up their innovation game!

So, let’s talk about one of the aspects of tech that can seem pretty daunting - computer hardware. You know, all those confusing wires, chips, gizmos and whatchamacallits that make your computer do magic. It’s not as confusing as you might think, honestly. Start with basics. Ever notice how every computer has two main parts- the bit with the screen where you watch cat videos (yeah, I know what you do when you’re “working from home”) and the other bit that buzzes a lot? That buzzing creature is where the hardware sits. The basic components of computer hardware include the motherboard, central processing unit (CPU), random access memory (RAM), hard drive, power supply and video card. And each part has its own thing going on and they all work together to make your computer work. Let’s get to know these guys a little better. The motherboard, she’s the boss. Connects all components and basically makes sure everyone is doing their job. The CPU’s the brain - it does all the thinking and controls most of the functions. RAM is the multitasker of the group, handling multiple applications at once (like when you’re watching cat videos, doing work and ordering pizza all at the same time). And that buzzing sound? That’s the hard drive wherein all your files (including those cat videos) are stored. And we can’t forget the power supply, without it, you wouldn 🤔

Oh my friend, you’re preaching to the choir here!🤦‍♀️ Toddler tantrums bring out the Olympic level of patience in parents sometimes. But you know what, breathe in, breathe out. Things get better, I promise. My son used to throw the most theatrical tantrums over not just the biscuits but, get this, even the broccoli. Yeah, who’d have thought?! I found that involving him in the shopping process helped. Like giving him simple tasks, picking his own snacks out of a healthy selection or even letting him push the trolley. It kind of preoccupies them and makes them feel “grown-up”. And as for the embarrassment, different audiences, same show. Give yourself a pat on the back for getting through it! You are doing great! 👏👏👏

Absolutely agree with what’s been said already. Trying out different pronouns with friends is a great idea, kinda like trying on a new pair of shoes to see how they fit. Hopefully, you’ve got some supportive buddies around you to make this process a bit easier. And about the love thing, it’ll all come naturally. We’re wired to fall for folks who set our hearts racing, so just let your feelings flow. Remember, no need to rush things, everything at your own pace. And like, this community? We’ve got your back. It’s all a journey, friend. Sending all the positive vibes your way, keep exploring, and stay awesome! 🌈💜

Right?! The personality trait thing bounded to a certain language is truly fascinating! My French side definitely brings out a little more elegance and refinement in me, amusing isn’t it? But that green-blue colour differentiation though, really throws me off every time! Shows how our brains are wired differently based on languages, huh? And your soup analogy, pure gold! I’m stealing that for my next language banter. Can’t wait to see what interesting flavours we’ll be adding next in the language soup! Onwards and upwards. Let’s keep stirring the pot!

Couldn’t agree more with you. Often, we get so caught up in trying to find the “perfect” thing to say that we forget the power of just being present and lending an ear. I’ve had my own share of battles with mental health, and personally, it wasn’t advice that got me through - it was feeling seen, heard and validated. Self-care part, right on the money! We gotta fill our own cups before we can pour into others. Thanks for that reminder! And hey, with this pandemic tossing curveballs left and right, staying grounded has never been more vital.😌 Keep going, mate, and remember you’re doing your best.

Love your attitude! Remember, stumbling is not falling. You’re spot on about finding wisdom in unexpected places too. My grandma once told me during a tough time that “storms make trees take deeper roots”. It wasn’t until later I truly understood it - we grow and become stronger from overcoming our challenges. Believe that brighter days are coming!🌈💪 Stay strong and keep creating that lemonade, pal!

Haha, spot on with the frequent updates bit! Feel like I’m constantly seeing “update available” - almost as regular as my morning coffee. 😂 Tried some of those phones with so-called ‘long-lasting battery’? Bruh, they make it seem like it’s going on forever, but two hours on Insta and poof! That battery’s dead as a dodo. 😅 Don’t get me wrong, love getting my hands on the new tech toys but c’mon, let’s focus on real user needs, not just the fancy stuff. And totally with ya on the phone hunt - ain’t nothing golden about a device if it can’t even last the day. Circled that rule in gold!👌😄

Heh, I hear ya on the nostalgia for simpler times, but man, I wouldn’t trade my S21 for anything now. Even with all those notifications. Ya know what? I think I juggle them pretty well. And gotta say, sloth facts during a meeting could brighten up any day, haha! But I see your point though, those gadgets gotta know their place. On a side note, if you think the S21 camera is awesome, wait till you try out the Pro mode. It’s a total game changer! Just putting it out there. Anyway, good luck finding your tech-life balance, mate 😉

Yikes, I totally feel you on this one. Some days just hit harder than others, y’know? I’ve been working on controlling what I can and letting the rest go. Easier said than done, I know, but focusing on small things like eating healthy, taking small breaks, short walks, listening to some chill music, helps me stay grounded. Another thing, don’t undervalue good ol’ distractions. Be it binging a good Netflix show, learning a new hobby, or maybe just reorganizing your space. Anything that keeps your mind off stuff for a bit. And hey, remember to not be too hard on yourself, alright? This kind of stress is new to all of us. It’s okay to not be okay all the time. Take care, mate.

Definitely seconding the Dell XPS 15 call, it’s a beast. But hey, does that Lenovo Yoga really stand up well under the video editing grind? Might be worth a look. I remember when I first got into 4K video editing, I opted for a MacBook Pro ’cos of the retina display. Cost me an arm and a leg, but you know what they say, you gotta pay to play! Anyway, cooling is super key. No one wants their laptop sounding like a jet engine. Thanks for the tips, I’ll keep them in mind for my next upgrade!