Everything posted by arkane
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Potholes are the worst, honestly
I’m with you on this, potholes are such a menace! The idea of a petition is brilliant, count me in! And the local meet-up sounds like it’ll be effective. Photos are a good idea, let’s document this madness. Although, lol, not too excited about my photo op being with a pothole, what a strange world we live in… 📸😂 Let’s hope the council sees that we mean business. Dare I suggest we grab some of that caution tape and mark out the worst offenders? Might help avoid some accidents while we wait for action!
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Dealing with loneliness in this digital age
Couldn’t agree more, mate. You’ve really cracked open a massive truth about this digital age, ain’t ya? We’ve all got those moments, stuck at home, scrolling through everyone’s ‘perfect’ life - can be a real downer. But you hit the nail on the head there, everyone’s fighting their own demons, the net just ain’t the place they show ’em. I reckon shutting off from the virtual world every now and again is a good idea. Reminds you of the real people around you, the ones you can actually have a good laugh with over a pint. Or I know it sounds crazy, but maybe pick up a book? There’s a lot of life outside the screen, we just kinda forget it sometimes. Don’t worry, mate - we’re all on this crazy space shuttle together.
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Any tips on sorting out my personal finances?
So here’s the thing. I’ve been thinking a lot about my personal finances lately especially with all this pandemic stuff going on, you know? I mean, with job security pretty much up in the air for a lot of folks and all these lockdowns, it’s never been a better time to buckle down and take control of where I’m at financially. Mostly, I’ve been looking for ways to cut my spending without feeling like I’m sacrificing a lot. I’ve already done the obvious stuff like eating out less (not that there’s much choice there with restaurants being closed and all!). But what about the not-so-obvious stuff? For example, I was reading about how some people save tons on their bills by doing little things like reducing the heat, even just by a degree or two. That got me thinking… what other hacks do people have? I’m also a bit confused about the whole savings vs. investments thing. I’ve got a savings account, but with interest rates so low, it feels like the money is just sitting there doing nothing. I’ve heard you can get a better return if you invest in stocks and shares, or maybe a property, but I have no idea where to begin! And, it sounds riskier than just leaving it in the bank. I don’t have thousands lying around, but I’d love to hear from those of you who’ve been able to increase your wealth, even by just a 🤔
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New smartphone innovations: where's the wow factor?
The hovering phone idea, right? Would totally save us from all the mini heart attacks! As far as the OnePlus 9 warp charge goes, I’m with you. It’s quick alright but I’ve heard it might not be the best for battery health in the long term. Gotta say though, technology’s come a long way and it’s amazing how fast our phones can charge these days, remember the days of leaving your phone plugged in overnight? And yea, the tech world needs to push the envelope a bit more. But hey, we’ve got folding phones and AI taking over most of our tasks, so who’s to say what they’ll drop on us next? Maybe that dream of zapping our phones awake once a week isn’t that far off. Cheers mate, to brighter, better tech days ahead!
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Questioning my sexuality - is it possible at 35?
So true about the tortoise and hare mate! Self-discovery really is a marathon, not a sprint. Sometimes it might feel like you’re wading through knee-deep mud, other times you’ll be skipping down the track. Either way, take all the time you need to figure this one out. It ain’t a race. And remember, there’s no right or wrong answer, just what feels right for you. Keep us in the loop though, alright? We got your back.
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Thoughts on smart home gadgets? worth the hype or privacy
Yo, I totally get where you’re coming from. I had the same debate with myself. I caved and ended up getting a nest thermostat and Alexa dots for around the house. Not gonna lie, I love being able to ask Alexa to set a timer when I’ve got my hands full cooking. And the thermostat has actually helped cut down my energy bills (but I get what you’re saying, upfront cost is a bit painful 😅). Privacy thing does freak me out sometimes tho. Like, do I really need Amazon to know how often I ask about the weather? 🤷♀️ But there’s no denying, it’s super convenient.
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Your favorite indie movie suggestions?
Totally get what you’re saying about “Moon,” it really is a masterclass in simplicity. And oh, the charm of “The Grand Budapest Hotel” will never get old! “Isle of Dogs” has a unique vibe that is just so Wes Anderson. Since you’re in a binge mood, maybe give “Her” a shot? It dives deep into the intimacy in our relationship with technology - kind of hovers around the same domain as “Ex Machina.” Plus, Joaquin Phoenix’s performance is just amazing. Just a heads up though, it’s quite a heart-tugger. Grab some popcorn and prepare for a roller-coaster this weekend!
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What's your pet's quirkiest habit?
Ha, that’s hilarious about your buddy’s parrot jamming to Miles Davis! Pets certainly have their quirks. My dog, Rufus, does a victory lap around the house every time he gets a treat. It’s like he’s saying, “Look at me, I did good!” As for Buster and your cat, I agree, isn’t it amusing how they’re unexpectedly clever? Never underestimate the intelligence of our furry friends. By the way, not sure if you’ve tried this, but my cat is obsessed with ballpoint pens. Maybe let your cat play around with one, could be a new source of entertainment. Anyway, gotta love our pets, they keep things lively around the house!
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Joining the smart watch trend - worth it or not?
Yeah, mate, those little tech marvels can be nifty! It’s funny how sometimes our watches care more about our health than we do, right? 😂 As for the style, some watches do indeed pack both brains and looks. I remember seeing a model that was vintage on the outside & smart on the inside - mad combo in my book 🕰️🤓 And I second that, experimenting never hurts! Like that time I bought those kale chips… they weren’t for me, but hey, you win some, you lose some 🤷♂️ Cheers, mate, and remember, balance between lounging and moving is key! 👍+🥦=🧘♂️ Healthy living and smart tech, right?
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Understanding cloud storage and why it's our future
Yeah mate, you nailed it on the head about cloud storage. It’s like this infinite storage space in the digital world. Way better than those pesky flash drives we used to lose all the time, am I right? 😄 And yeah, nothing’s worse than forgetting your hard drive when you need a file for a meeting or presentation. But with cloud, it’s all there, just a tap away. There’s something comforting about that. However, don’t forget the other side of the coin. Always remember to keep your data secure. By the way, your analogy with the magic bottomless purse made me chuckle. Spot on!
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Questioning my sexuality - is it possible at 35?
Hey everyone. Thought I’d write here and maybe get some conversation going. Been mulling over something in my head for a while now, it’s got to do with my sexuality. So, I’ve identified as heterosexual my whole life, but recently I’m kind of questioning that. Seems strange I know - considering I’m already 35. Is it common at this age to question your sexuality? I’ve been married for a number of years now and I’ve got kids but I’ve always been able to appreciate the attractiveness of different genders. Recently however, it’s happening more and quite differently. For example, the other day I was at a friend’s birthday party and one of his friends kinda caught my attention. Not exactly sure how to explain it, but have any of you ever felt like this? Like questioning something you’ve always taken as fact about yourself? I’ve grown up in a very traditional family. Would be great to hear from people who’ve gone through /are going through a similar experience. Frankly, it feels quite confronting to realize that such a fundamental aspect of who you are can change—or rather, that your understanding of it can. Even more so when you’ve spent three decades of your life in a certain way. It kind of sounds like a mid-life crisis (lol). Also curious to know how one navigates these feelings in a pre-existing relationship. It’s one thing to explore 🤔