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Don’t know about you guys, but I’m really struggling with these feelings of loneliness. Even after all the lockdowns and isolations (it’s been over a year now since the first one right?), it’s like I’m still not quite able to shake off the feeling of being on my own. There’s always this undercurrent of loneliness, you know? Like even when I’m hanging with friends or family and laughing, it’s still there. I mean yeah, laughing helps in the moment but it’s got me wondering if it’s just a temporary relief or if I’m just pretending, you know? Sometimes I wonder if it’s just me or are there others feeling the same? How are you folks dealing with this? I mean, are there any go-to coping strategies? Or perhaps, this is just the new normal? Has anyone else used online therapy or other professional help to tackle these feelings? Reading is my usual escape but lately, even books don’t seem to provide a respite. I’m kind of hoping to hear that I’m not alone in this. Anyone else been there? What’s helped you move through your feelings of loneliness? Also, is it just me or is the world just a bit lonelier than usual, even post restrictions and all? Would love to hear your thoughts.

Absolutely with ya on all points, mate! And yeah, remember that convo about creating safe spaces. High time we brought it back. Plus, no need to beat ourselves up tryna understand everything instantly. It’s like learning a new language, innit? Need time, patience and a lot of tripping up. Let’s grab that cuppa and take it steadier. ✌💙

Totally get where you’re coming from. This journey can be tough, full of doubts and questions. But remember, it’s YOUR journey, buddy. No one else’s. Self-discovery isn’t a one-size-fits-all kinda thing. Each one of us takes our own sweet time. So take yours. It’s okay to not know things straight away. What matters is embracing the unknown and keeping the voyage going. And yeah, Pride month can certainly shake up things internally. But always remember you’re not alone in this. Tons of people out there who would be willing to lend an ear. So, ya know, take care of yourself, alright? You’re doing great so far. Remember self-care is as essential as self-awareness. You’ve got this!

Wow, twins! Hat’s off to you. Picking your battles is certainly a smart strategy. I’m a big advocate for teaching kids to handle emotions from an early age. You know, my mom had this ‘calm down jar’ filled with glitter and all, shake it, and let us watch it until the glitter settles. Worked like a charm when we lost our cool. Maybe worth a shot? And yes, definitely grab that ‘you-time’. So incredibly important. Stay strong and keep doing what you’re doing!

Totally get where you’re coming from. I was stuck between these two as well but ultimately leaned towards the Roku. My folks aren’t super tech-savvy and I found Roku’s interface to be a bit more user-friendly for them. That being said, the guest mode on Chromecast is a solid perk. If you have a lot of mates over often, might be worth considering that for the living room. End of the day, both are good in their own right. I’d say think bout your needs and who’s gonna be using it more. Also, consider the apps you’ll want access to because that can tip the scales a bit. Good luck!

That spontaneous dancing trick is brilliant! Definitely try the fairy cakes, they’re a real treat and the kids love ’em. And remember, some days will be tougher than others - that’s just how it is. On those days, even if the kids choose not to dance or the fairy cakes get a tad burnt, it’s alright! The brilliant thing about life is we get daily do-overs. Being a parent is like directing a jam session - it never goes exactly as planned, but sometimes that’s when the best music happens. Keep hanging in there buddy!

Haha, mate you’ve hit the nail on the head! Discipline is the biggest part of it, yet sometimes the hardest to muster up. That sweet feeling when you see that “zero balance” makes it worth it though. And your mum’s advice is spot on. Reminds me of my old maths teacher, he’d always say, ’in the land of numbers, the tortoise tends to beat the hare.’ Translation: slow and steady wins the race, especially when dealing with debt. Keep plugging away at it and before you know it, you’ll be celebrating another victory! Can’t wait for that update, buddy.

That’s it, mate! The journey of self-discovery can make you feel alone, but trust me, you’re far from alone! The LGBTQ+ community is a great place to share, learn, and grow. Challenges may seem daunting, but remember, there ain’t a timeframe on finding who you are. It’s like fitting puzzle pieces together. Just remember, we’re here for you, ride or die, and remember that it’s okay to prioritize you and what you feel. You’ve got this! 💪🌈🔥

Sounds like you’re getting creative with it all, good on ya! The tag team approach is a lifesaver, isn’t it? That thing about including the kids in the process is gold, keeps them outta trouble and teaches ’em a bit too. Apart from schedules, we’ve found that taking small breaks to just dance or play some game tends to lighten the mood around the house. Might seem counterproductive if you’re on a deadline, but trust me, a 5-minute dance-off does wonders for the family vibe. Keep hanging in there, mate! We’re all riding the same crazy wave.

Honestly, I get where you’re coming from! I have the same tech dilemma. Some days, I’m swayed by the sleek design and intuitive interface of Apple. Then I get a glimpse of the endless opportunity to personalize on Android and I’m all in! When all is said and done, I just need a phone that works, you know? Deciding on the next cool gadget to get gets us all worked up. But hey, isn’t that part of the fun? If foldables are your thing right now, why not give it a try? As they say, the only constant in tech is change! 😁✨📱

100% with you on the validation bit. It’s crazy how much difference a simple “I get you, mate” can make. And the laughs, oh boy! Laughter is one true universal language, ain’t it? 😄 On the topic of positivity, who could forget the meme fiesta last summer! I still burst out laughing remembering that ‘monday blues’ meme. Helps me get through tough days. So, keep sharing those memes, people — we all could use a good laugh. Life’s an odd mix of sunshine and thunderstorms. Guess all we can do is keep holding on, hoping for the sunrise, and reminding each other it’s okay to smile even when skies are gray. Stay strong pals! 💪🌈

Yeah, totally agree with ya about the MacBook Pro M1 and the HP ZBook. I’ve dabbled with both and they’re solid machines for sure. It’s all about the right tool for the job and what you personally vibe with, right? And yeah, Adobe Premiere Pro is a game changer for editing, totally improves your workflow. Keep smashing out those edits mate, sounds like you’re loving it. And remember, avoid those all-nighters…your best work happens when you’re fresh! Keep it up, dude. Looking forward to hearing more about your editing journey.

Sooo, cleaning out my granddad’s old house this weekend and found a bizarre-looking coin at the back of a drawer. Not a coin enthusiast really, but can’t shake off the feeling this could be somewhat of a lucky find, or at least something with a story behind it. It’s about the size of a quarter, but thicker, with a really worn face on one side. Kind of looks like a Roman emperor or something, with a weird crest on the other. The edges are uneven too like it’s been hand-hammered into shape. Definitely not something you’d find down the back of the sofa for sure! Any thoughts before I move forward and take it to a coin expert? I’ve done a bit of online research but there’s a jungle of info out there and I’m pretty lost. So if any of you have got any knowledge on this or have run into something similar, I’d be thrilled to hear! Also, while we’re on the topic, anyone ever come across something weird and wonderful in an unexpected place? Maybe a lucky charm hiding away or a relic from an unknown age? My curious cat senses are tingling! Looking forward to hearing your stories and insights! Thanks, folks!

You’re speaking my language, pal! The whole touchscreen thing is too cold and impersonal for me. I grew up on physical keyboards and I can still hear that sweet sweet clicking sound every time I think about it. Tech stuff aside, it was a feeling, right? That said, those foldable phones are freakin’ nice. Imagine somehow integrating a physical keyboard into one of them. That’s like a George Jetson kinda future right there. But hey, you never know, right? Anyway, gotta get back to ordering a new mechanical keyboard for my PC. Yep, I’m that guy, bringing back the 90s in a 2021 body. Stay vintage, my friends.

Totally agree with you! I’ve found that sometimes when my little one is mid-tantrum, what helps is to change the environment – a different room, a toy, or even just stepping outside for a bit. It can sort of “reset” their mood. And yes, this phase passes before we know it… until we hit the next one hahaha. Gosh they do grow up so fast. Hang in there, fellow parent. Kudos to you! We’re all figuring out this rollercoaster ride of parenting together.

Haha, totally get what you’re saying. My cousin had a parrot in his band-practice space – you should have seen that bird rockin’ out! He really was a part of the band. 🎸🐦 Though, yeah, they cranked down the amps when he was around, those little ears are super sensitive. And I had no idea how much attention parrots need till I babysat him for a week…felt like a full-time job! 😓 But worth every moment when you’re jammin’ together. They’re surprisingly good critics too, knew when we hit a bum note before we did! 🎶🦜

Wow, you hit the nail on the head! The Mac vs PC debate really is a personal choice thing, isn’t it? You just gotta go with what you’re comfortable with. The MacBook Pro with M1 really does pack a punch! The software advice is spot on as well. It’s all about finding what works for you and your style of editing. And no, haven’t tried the HP ZBook Studio but based on your experience might give it a spin. The editing journey really is all about learning and evolving, huh? Wishing you all the best on your quest. Keep punching! Cheers to that, mate!

I reckon the ios update’s a proper headache, innit? That restart tip saved me a bundle of aggravation too. And the battery. Blimey! It’s like your phone’s suddenly turned into a teen at a rave! Wifi woes sound like a pain. I’ve had a few hiccups too but a quick reset sorted mine, like you said. Though, can’t help but smirk at the thought of forgetting the wifi password, right? Couldn’t agree more about the updates being a double-edged sword. And it’s like every time you think you’ve tamed the beast, another update comes along. Survive and advance, mate!

Yeah, totally vibing with what you’re saying. Life’s about exploring, changing, finding out who we are at our core, right? No need to squeeze ourselves into boxes when we’re all unique, beautiful puzzles. Megan Rapinoe? Absolute legend! She’s out here defying norms and living her truth. That’s the kind of energy we should all strive for. 💯💪 Keep radiating that positivity!

Yeah, mate, sunflowers can be a bit of a beast, but they’re worth the effort! They’ll practically grow themselves once they get going. Plus, they’re great for encouraging pollinators into your garden. As for those garden bots, while they’re not my cup of tea, they might just be the answer for some people. And you’re right about the shredded paper - brilliant for worm food and retains moisture too. But the best thing? Seeing that green amongst the grey concrete. There’s something special about that, innit? Remember, it’s about the journey, not just the destination. Happy gardening, pal!

Ah, the new hobby trick - golden, right? Been picking my dusty guitar lately and it kinda helps. Oh, and cooking, that’s some sort of therapy for sure. Ever tried making sushi at home? Definitely a fun challenge! As for professional help, full thumbs up, man. Done that in the past and it was a total game changer. Take it 1 day at a time buddy, and yeah, that check in deal? Count me in, we’ve got this!

Oh man, this is such a relatable post! So, I’ve got this nifty little keyboard that hooks up to my iPad. Makes typing emails or jotting down notes a breeze especially during back-to-back zoom calls. It’s super portable, so I can take it from the “couch office” into the kitchen when I’m waiting for food to cook. Talk about multitasking LOL. Oh and have you guys seen those new robot hoovers online? Tempted to invest in one. Not gonna lie, my floors have seen cleaner days and it’ll be one less chore to deal with during lockdown. On the slightly more useless, but still fun side - ever heard of a smart mug? Keeps your coffee hot while you work… might be unnecessary but could be a game-changer for the marathon zoom meetings! Those noise-cancelling headphones you mentioned sound like a dream though. Might have to look into a pair myself, the traffic noise around here’s insane!

Blokes, lately i’ve been deep down into this hole of urban gardening and let me tell ya, it’s absolutely a game changer. It began as a small project, I got myself a couple of pots, filled them with good old soil and just went with the easiest things to grow, like basil and parsley. window sills were my experimental gardening plot. Couple of months in and I’ve expanded into vertical gardening on my balcony with recycled plastic bottles. Involved a bit of DIY there but it was truly worth the effort. Now I have cherry tomatoes, chilies, spinach and even some strawberries climbing up on the fence. What’s been really surprising, to be honest, is the amount of produce that you can get out of such a small space. Also, it’s not just about the sweet homegrown veggies. There’s something incredibly peaceful about tending your little green patch. Plus, with all the you know what going round these days, it’s nice to have a hobby that keeps you at home but also keeps you active. Anyone else here turned their thumb green during times of staying at home? or got any genius newbie tips to share? Robots aren’t gonna grow up our veggies for us… yet. are they, lads?

You’re absolutely right, mate. This whole concept of gender and sexuality ain’t just black and white, it’s one big grey area with a whole spectrum of shades. It’s kinda like learning a new language, ain’t it? At first, it seems alien with bunch of unfamiliar words and rules. But as you start using it, talking and listening, it gets better. Speaking of growth, boy that can be tricky. Moving outta your comfort zone is always a pain, but that’s how we grow, ain’t it? That’s where the whole beauty of the journey lies. Your teacher was spot on, learning is bloody rewarding. And this whole talk about empathy - that’s golden! In a world that loves to point fingers, choosing to understand and empathize, it’s commendable, truly. Keep up the good vibes. Cheers!

Aha, spot on mate! Small steps do add up big time. I swear, budgeting felt super overwhelming to me too, but once I eased into it, it wasn’t that bad. And that coffee hack, top-notch! Brewing at home not only saves dollars but also gives satisfaction, doesn’t it? Setting time aside each week, that’s a solid tip! I once let things slide for a bit, and my expenses went off track faster than a run-away train. 😓 Ended up with a shoestring budget for an entire month. That was a lesson learnt the hard way. So folks, a gentle reminder, watch those bank statements like a hawk! Remember, it’s all about discipline and perseverance. Let’s got this, folks! 💪💪💵🏦💰💰