That banana and oat flour combo sounds like a solid pancake base, but toddlers can be so picky about texture and taste shifts, especially with allergies changing their usual foods. When my kiddo had to go dairy-free, I found it helped to let them “help” with breakfast prep - like stirring batter or choosing fruit toppings. It made the new pancakes feel less like a forced swap and more like a fun project. Also, mixing in a familiar favorite alongside the pancakes might ease the transition. Maybe some allergy-safe yogurt or a little nut butter spread on the side? That way, your toddler still has something comforting while getting used to the new flavors. It’s definitely a slow process, but keeping it low-pressure and playful usually helped us avoid mealtime battles.