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Have I done the right thing? - saumil - 05-27-2010
I kissed a bloke one of my best friends liked. She was talking to me about him and I was honest with her and told her what happened. She was gutted and wont speak to me, which is fair enough.
I then informed the bloke that I'd let her know, just to 'warn' him. We'd been talking about being together so I thought he'd be alright really. Well yeah, he wasnt. He's ignored my message and updated his facebook status to basically saying he's angry and came back down to earth with a 'thud'.
I feel like I'm being blamed from both sides here when all I've done is been honest. What do I do now?
RE: Have I done the right thing? - Pink Floyd - 05-28-2010
That's a tough situation. While you like the girl (boy?) you have another friend that likes the same person. I can understand that haha. I've been in similar situations. What I did was I told my friend that me and the other person agreed that we would be best for each other, and that I felt it was Ok to be with her, because I was just following what my heart told me. So trust your gut, do what you think is right. If you want to be with her/him, talk to your friend about it and tell them, honestly, how you feel.
Good luck.