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Party for new years. - ๖ۣۜHacker™ - 12-24-2011
So I got invited to a new years party by this random kid on facebook, I could go but I just cba to do anything or worry about it. See, the way that I look at a party or any parties if that, I just see more problems. Of course, no one likes problems right? So I avoid it. So what would be a way for me to get out and be more social instead of hating on everyone all the time and not going to said "parties". Parties look like fine but I never drank alcohol or smoked in my entire life and I don't know if I should start, and everyone knows you can't party without that. So tell me what you guys think on this, thanks.
RE: Party for new years. - King - 12-24-2011
Hang out with the other sober people there. I'm sure not all your friends are mindless drunks. I don't drink either. There's nothing worse than being sober amongst a bunch of drunk people either. If you really want to get out, go to the party. But it seems to me that you'd rather chill at home - so do that, and don't feel obligated to go. Don't feel guilty about not going.
RE: Party for new years. - ๖ۣۜHacker™ - 12-24-2011
(12-24-2011, 05:17 PM)King Wrote: Hang out with the other sober people there. I'm sure not all your friends are mindless drunks. I don't drink either. There's nothing worse than being sober amongst a bunch of drunk people either. If you really want to get out, go to the party. But it seems to me that you'd rather chill at home - so do that, and don't feel obligated to go. Don't feel guilty about not going.
I don't feel guilty at all... I guess I will just wait til I get older. I am 17 now so maybe when I get into college I will start doing that crap, but for now, I will finish up school and play it the smart way.
Also, I am not ugly or fat or anything appearance wise that is holding me back. I actually look like Ashton Kutcher. ;)
RE: Party for new years. - Xch4ng3 - 12-24-2011
You can have a good time without drugs and alcohol. It's just that people (especially girls.) get more loose when theirs alcohol so it's a win win situation. Just find people who are actually up for having a good time rather than relying on drinks. Although keep in mind, you'll have a lot more fun if you have a few drinks, nothing overboard just a beer or a few shots to keep you a bit tipsy.
RE: Party for new years. - ๖ۣۜHacker™ - 12-24-2011
(12-24-2011, 06:36 PM)Xch4ng3 Wrote: You can have a good time without drugs and alcohol. It's just that people (especially girls.) get more loose when theirs alcohol so it's a win win situation. Just find people who are actually up for having a good time rather than relying on drinks. Although keep in mind, you'll have a lot more fun if you have a few drinks, nothing overboard just a beer or a few shots to keep you a bit tipsy.
Oh ok, thanks for the advice xch4ng3.
RE: Party for new years. - OFWGKTΔ - 12-25-2011
I would go to the party, but that is just me, i guess.