(07-14-2011, 05:00 AM)Bяian ♪ Wrote: Saying you don't want want to ruin what you have now is the kind of thing a guy would say when he's talking about his female best friend who he has known for years. Usually if he ends up falling for her he let's his friendship get the better of him and stay best friends. In your case you have only just met the girl and clearly have a thing for her and by the sounds of it she likes you back. Ask her out on a date, because you both get on so well she won't say no but she will either say 'yes' or 'yes but just as friends'. Obviously I can't guarantee this but you will certainly find out what kind of way she likes you by asking her on a date. Even if she doesn't want to be more than friends, it shouldn't ruin what you guys already have.

(07-15-2011, 03:31 AM)Mayhem Wrote: He's right. It shouldn't tarnish the friendship. You don't know her for that long of a time really. You're still not in the friend completely yet. If you make a move, you may have a chance. But later on, it'll be harder to get out of the friend zone and you'll regret not asking her for the rest of your life.

(07-15-2011, 07:33 AM)Outcast Wrote: You both are right, guess I'll have to get some balls and ask her. But there's this thing, she's sending me all those "mixed" signals, it's confusing. Like, she leans onto me and crap, but next day I have a feeling like I'm boring to her and that she doesn't listen to what I'm saying and crap like that. Then again, the same crap like the first day and so on... Also, any tips how to tell her, I never actually asked a girl out or told I love her or simmilar?

(07-15-2011, 07:33 AM)Outcast Wrote: You both are right, guess I'll have to get some balls and ask her. But there's this thing, she's sending me all those "mixed" signals, it's confusing. Like, she leans onto me and crap, but next day I have a feeling like I'm boring to her and that she doesn't listen to what I'm saying and crap like that. Then again, the same crap like the first day and so on... Also, any tips how to tell her, I never actually asked a girl out or told I love her or simmilar?

(07-14-2011, 04:25 AM)Outcast Wrote: Let me just say that we know eachother for three days only, but I know more about her now than about people I know for 5-10 years.

(07-15-2011, 03:18 PM)Providence Wrote: The likelihood that that's actually true is next to nothing. I suggest you calm down on the puppy love and act yourself, or else you'll run the risk of scaring her off with your over-eagerness. Just sayin'.