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RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - NekoChan - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 12:28 AM)Mous Wrote: I'm older than 20, and have probably had more girlfriends than I can count on both hands.
Don't be so condescending.
Honestly, there is a chance a woman would fall into your lap.
a couple of mine have, I'm still dating one that did.
Not everyone is you, or am I wrong? Is your ego actually that big, you think everyone has the same faith as you do?
Also I updated my previous post.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - Mous - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 12:30 AM)NekoChan Wrote: Not everyone is you, or am I wrong? Is your ego actually that big, you think everyone has the same faith as you do?
Also I updated my previous post.
What does faith have to do with a girl "falling into your lap"?
If they do that, I'm pretty sure such a thing wasn't expected.
therefore, no faith would've been required. Saying faith is involved there
is only an assumption, you'd be assuming the person was thinking
"Oh, I'm not worried, I'll find a woman."
Also, I never said EVERYONE is me, but you also DIDN'T say ANYONE
had such a thing happen, and that we were ALL under 20 and NEVER
went through emotional hardships. Which, again, is an assumption,
and a very condescending one, because that implies that you would
know better through personal experience.
Just as well, there isn't really a WAY to spoon feed someone in this
situation, because only HE can *know* how he interacts between him
and her down to the T. We can only make guesses, and even then they
won't be extremely accurate. I honestly think that if he understands
multiple aspects of his situation, then he will be better off. Even if not;
and she still says "no", hind sight is always 20/20 and he will be able to
understand what happened and why she said "no" after the fact.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - NekoChan - 03-16-2011
I wish the old SF emotional quality would be the same
Not even going to respond to that wall of text.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - C4Vendetta - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 12:36 AM)Mous Wrote: What does faith have to do with a girl "falling into your lap"?
If they do that, I'm pretty sure such a thing wasn't expected.
therefore, no faith would've been required. Saying faith is involved there
is only an assumption, you'd be assuming the person was thinking
"Oh, I'm not worried, I'll find a woman."
Also, I never said EVERYONE is me, but you also DIDN'T say ANYONE
had such a thing happen, and that we were ALL under 20 and NEVER
went through emotional hardships. Which, again, is an assumption,
and a very condescending one, because that implies that you would
know better through personal experience.
Just as well, there isn't really a WAY to spoon feed someone in this
situation, because only HE can *know* how he interacts between him
and her down to the T. We can only make guesses, and even then they
won't be extremely accurate. I honestly think that if he understands
multiple aspects of his situation, then he will be better off. Even if not;
and she still says "no", hind sight is always 20/20 and he will be able to
understand what happened and why she said "no" after the fact.
Cool story, Casanova.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - Bullet Proof - 03-16-2011
Be confident and social, really, start talking to random girls and get to know them, then you'll get to know their friends and so on till you find the one girl.
And if you find her, be confident, always show her that you're guy who is there for her.
Hope that helps.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - ThermalYew1 - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 02:06 PM)Bullet Proof Wrote: Be confident and social, really, start talking to random girls and get to know them, then you'll get to know their friends and so on till you find the one girl.
And if you find her, be confident, always show her that you're guy who is there for her.
Hope that helps.
Yeah, your right. See i'm a shy person in general. I get intimated by everyone I meet... I think it's from how people use to treat me. My thing now is that IDK what to say or how to keep a conversation going... But I think if I keep at it i'll eventually get it going.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - C4Vendetta - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 02:29 PM)ThermalYew1 Wrote: IDK what to say or how to keep a conversation going...
Keep staring right at her awkwardly until she says something, or calls the police.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - GrammarPhreak - 03-16-2011
(03-16-2011, 02:29 PM)ThermalYew1 Wrote: Yeah, your right. See i'm a shy person in general. I get intimated by everyone I meet... I think it's from how people use to treat me. My thing now is that IDK what to say or how to keep a conversation going... But I think if I keep at it i'll eventually get it going.
It's up to you buddy, you have gotten some great advice. You cannot be shy when trying to talk to a girl, have confidence in yourself as I stated before. Show her how you feel about her, but don't be a jerk & try to act too conceited.
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - ThermalYew1 - 03-17-2011
yeah, i think im gonna try and talk more... cause also its pretty boring when im not working or not in school cause i really dont have anyon to hang out with... i really do need to try and stop being so shy!
i think ill b able to do it... at least try y not ya no??
RE: I'm tired of feeling lonley... - Vital Signs - 03-18-2011
I used to be in the same situation you were.
However, that did change.
The best bit of advice I can offer to you is to be yourself. Don't try to change your personality to please others, just be yourself. Also try to be confident and at least a little outgoing. Don't care so much about what other people think about you.