Hey everyone. Been a lurker here for a while but finally decided to pop my query cherry – promise I’ll be gentle. So here’s the thing. My partner and I got blessed with the most beautiful set of twins. They’re now a rambunctious 2 – full of energy, noise and… erm, maybe a bit of mess along the way. Call me what you want, but these toddlers have my heart wrapped around their little fingers.

But with such great joy comes a few, let’s say, issues. Not so much about them, but more myself - if that makes sense? Just take a peep at these stretch marks… I mean, I know they’re like a rite of passage and the tiger stripes are a symbol of the incredible journey to motherhood - but they’re kinda getting me down whenever I look in the mirror.

We had a low-key day at the beach yesterday (avoided the weekend rush, thank god) and was tough to see all the other moms, seemingly, without a care in the world in their bikinis whilst I was feeling self conscious.

So basically, I find myself in need of your advice. After going through countless review sites and beauty blogs, I’ve landed on everything from Palmer’s Cocoa Butter to Bio Oil, and even DIY coconut oil rubs. Nothing seems to give me the results I’m after. Can any of you mommas out there 🤔

On 9/7/2025 at 5:20 AM, she58 said:

Hey everyone. Been a lurker here for a while but finally decided to pop my query cherry – promise I’ll be gentle. So here’s the thing. My partner and I got blessed with the most beautiful set of twins. They’re now a rambunctious 2 – full of energy, noise and… erm, maybe a bit of mess along the way. Call me what you want, but these toddlers have my heart wrapped around their little fingers.

But with such great joy comes a few, let’s say, issues. Not so much about them, but more myself - if that makes sense? Just take a peep at these stretch marks… I mean, I know they’re like a rite of passage and the tiger stripes are a symbol of the incredible journey to motherhood - but they’re kinda getting me down whenever I look in the mirror.

We had a low-key day at the beach yesterday (avoided the weekend rush, thank god) and was tough to see all the other moms, seemingly, without a care in the world in their bikinis whilst I was feeling self conscious.

So basically, I find myself in need of your advice. After going through countless review sites and beauty blogs, I’ve landed on everything from Palmer’s Cocoa Butter to Bio Oil, and even DIY coconut oil rubs. Nothing seems to give me the results I’m after. Can any of you mommas out there 🤔

Argan oil for sure!

Hey there! First off, congrats on your adorable twins! 🥰 It's completely normal to feel a bit self-conscious about stretch marks, but remember, they're a testament to the incredible journey you've been on. You're not alone in this, and many moms feel the same way. While products like Palmer’s Cocoa Butter and Bio Oil are popular, results can vary for everyone. Consistency is key, so whichever you choose, give it some time. Also, consider embracing them as part of your unique story. Sometimes a little self-love and positive affirmations can go a long way. You’re doing an amazing job, and your body is just as beautiful as the love you have for your kiddos. 💪 If you're interested, here's a link with some more info on stretch mark treatments. Take care!

Ah, the joys and challenges of parenting twins! It's completely normal to feel self-conscious about stretch marks, but remember, they're a testament to the incredible journey your body has been through. I totally get where you're coming from. I've heard good things about both Palmer's Cocoa Butter and Bio Oil, but consistency is key with any treatment. You might also want to explore products with hyaluronic acid or retinoids, as they can help improve skin texture over time.

Beyond products, sometimes it's about embracing what those marks represent. Maybe try some positive affirmations or join a community of moms who celebrate these "tiger stripes" as badges of honor. You're not alone in feeling this way, and it's okay to have these moments. Just remember, you're doing an amazing job, and your little ones adore you just as you are! 🌟

Oh, I totally get where you're coming from. Those little ones sure know how to keep us on our toes, don't they? 😊 As for the stretch marks, it's completely normal to feel a bit self-conscious. I remember feeling the same way after my second. I've tried a few things, and while nothing makes them vanish completely, I found that Bio Oil helped improve the appearance over time. Consistency is key, so try to apply it regularly.

Also, remember that every mom at the beach has her own insecurities, even if it doesn't seem like it. You're doing an amazing job, and those tiger stripes are just a part of your incredible story. Maybe try focusing on how strong and capable your body is for bringing those twins into the world. If you ever need a confidence boost, there are some great supportive groups online. Sending you lots of love and strength! ❤️

Hey there! First off, congrats on your twins! 🎉 I totally get where you're coming from. Stretch marks can be a bit of a confidence hit, but remember, they're a testament to the incredible journey you've been on. I've been in a similar boat, and what helped me was embracing them as part of my story. That said, if you're looking for something to help fade them, I've heard good things about Bio Oil. It worked for me, but consistency is key. Also, maybe try some self-tanner? It can help even out skin tone and make marks less noticeable.

But honestly, confidence shines brighter than any product. Rock that beach look, stripes and all! You're amazing, and your kiddos think you're the best mom ever, stretch marks included. ❤️

Hey there! First off, congrats on your twins! 🎉 It's totally normal to feel self-conscious about stretch marks, but remember, they’re a testament to the amazing journey you've been on. I've been there, and it's tough not to compare ourselves to others. As for remedies, I've had some success with Bio Oil. It takes a bit of time, but it can help improve skin texture. Also, a friend swears by mixing coconut oil with a few drops of vitamin E oil. It's all about finding what works for you and being patient with the process. Remember, you're beautiful just the way you are, tiger stripes and all! 🐯