Have any of you noticed sudden changes in your teen’s behaviour and how did you handle it? My 15-year-old has always been a pretty easy kid, very open and communicative, patient and thoughtful. Ever since this whole COVID lockdown started (I’m so fed up with it btw, anyone else?) and we’ve had to do remote schooling, I’ve seen a drastic change in him.

He’s become increasingly moody and irritable, is not interested in our family game nights as he used to, barely leaves his room now unless it’s for food or to use the restroom—it’s scary. I’m trying not to invade his space and respect his privacy but it’s so hard when I’ve no clue what’s happening inside his head.

The worst part is, he’s not talking, like EVER. If it’s not one-word answers, it’s grunts or nods. I can’t even remember the last time he smiled, and it’s so heartbreaking seeing your kid like this. We used to talk about everything under the sun and now, we hardly have any conversation.

Has anyone else experienced this? What did you do? I thought maybe it was just the isolation getting to him, but how do I make sure it’s not something else, more serious? Or am I just overreacting? Everything I’ve read online is just so confusing, and I guess I’m just looking for some real advice from other parents 🤔

Hey, I totally get where you’re coming from, this lockdown stuff is hard on everyone - especially the kiddos. My own teen went through a similar phase in the early stages of things. Don’t think you’re overreacting. They’re used to their friends, sports, school, the hustle and bustle and then everything just goes silent, it’s tough.

Try finding ways to engage with him, maybe explore interests he has - online gaming, movie nights with his favorite snacks? And if he still seems down, it’s okay to have a frank talk, tell him it’s a difficult time for all and you’re there for him. You could also suggest online counseling - sometimes it’s easier to talk to strangers than to the folks who’ve known you all your life, right?

Remember though, we’re not professionals, always reach out to one if you feel you need to. Pandemic or not, parenthood is a journey the textbooks don’t cover. Keep your chin up!

You're definitely not alone in noticing changes in your teen's behavior during these times. Many parents are seeing similar shifts, and it's understandable to feel concerned. Teens are navigating a lot right now, and the isolation can be tough on them. One thing that helped with my own teen was creating low-pressure opportunities for connection. Sometimes just sitting in the same room without the pressure to talk can open the door for conversation. Maybe try engaging him in an activity he enjoys, even if it's something simple like watching a show or cooking together.

Also, consider gently checking in with him about how he's feeling, without pushing too hard. Let him know you're there for him. If he continues to seem withdrawn, it might be worth reaching out to a counselor or therapist who can provide support. Remember, you're doing your best, and being there for him is already a big step. 😊

It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and you're definitely not alone in this. Many teens have struggled with the isolation and changes that came with the pandemic. It’s pretty common for them to retreat into their own world when they’re feeling overwhelmed. I remember when my own teen went through a similar phase; it was tough not knowing how to help.

One thing that worked for us was finding small ways to connect that didn’t feel forced. Sometimes just sitting with them, even in silence, can help. Also, consider encouraging him to talk to someone outside the family, like a counselor or a trusted adult. It might give him a different outlet to express what he’s feeling. Keep being patient and let him know you're there for him when he's ready to open up. Hang in there! 😊

You're definitely not alone in feeling this way. The pandemic has been tough on everyone, especially teenagers who thrive on social interaction. It's not uncommon for teens to become more withdrawn during these times. One thing that worked for me was creating small opportunities for connection without being too pushy. Maybe try inviting him to join you for a short walk or a drive. Sometimes being side-by-side rather than face-to-face can make it easier for them to open up.

Also, consider gently checking in with him about how he's feeling overall, without pressing too hard. Let him know you're there if he wants to talk. If you're worried it might be something more serious, it might be worth reaching out to a counselor or therapist for advice. Remember, you're doing your best, and it's okay to seek help when needed. Hang in there! 😊

Oh, I can totally relate to what you're going through. My daughter went through a similar phase last year. The pandemic has really shaken up their world, and it's tough to see them retreat. What helped us was setting up a regular check-in time where we’d do something low-pressure together, like a short walk or a drive. It gave her space to open up without feeling like it was an interrogation.

Also, sometimes just being there, even if they’re not talking, can be comforting for them. I’d suggest keeping an eye on things, and if you’re worried it might be something more serious, maybe gently suggest talking to a counselor. They often open up more to someone outside the family. Hang in there, it’s a challenging time for everyone, but your support means a lot. 😊

It sounds like you're going through a tough time, and it's completely understandable to be concerned. Many teens have struggled with the isolation and changes brought about by the pandemic. My own kid went through something similar, and it was really hard to see them withdraw. What helped us was finding new ways to connect, like taking short walks together or trying out new hobbies that sparked their interest. It wasn't easy, but gradually, it opened up more opportunities for conversation.

It's important to keep the lines of communication open, even if it feels one-sided right now. Maybe try writing him a note expressing your concern and love, letting him know you're there whenever he's ready to talk. Sometimes giving them space while gently reminding them you're there can make a difference. Hang in there, and remember that you're not alone in this. 🤗