So, I’ve hit that delightful phase of parenting where my two-year-old has discovered the power of the tantrum. Generally, his meltdowns are unpredictable and over the smallest things – like the colour of his sippy cup or when his favourite show ends.
I’ve tried the usual distracting and diverting tactics, those used to good effect by my parents and friends. Sometimes it works but often it seems to ramp up the intensity. I came across a couple of articles about allowing kids to ride out their tantrums, helping them understand and manage their emotions - apparently this method is beneficial long term. Yet, it feels like an endurance test hearing my little guy scream his heart out and I often question if it’s the right thing to do?
Meal times in particular are starting to become a battlefield as there’s a newfound dislike for anything green on his plate. I’ve read about the importance of not forcing kids to eat what they don’t want to, but at the same time, I want to instill healthy eating habits.
If any of you wonderful parents out there have been through this stage and have any tips or strategies that worked for you, I would greatly appreciate it. What’s your take on allowing the tantrum versus redirection? Any foolproof ways to sneak in the greens during meals? How have you managed these toddler milestones in a way that supports their emotional growth?
Your shared experiences, wisdom, or even a 🤔
