How a girl can be physically attracted to a lot of other men and claim to be in love with you?? To be honest that sounds very sluttish in a way. I'm am freakin sick and tired of chicks that think it is O.K. do this and to be frank it really, REALLY, pisses me off!! They just need to back the hell off and go fudge around if they don't have the ability to handle a long term relationship. I can't stand double minded people and my patience in the matter is going to make me snap. I don't know why I'm making a gotdamn post about it but what the hell ever; I am angry.
Bro, trust me, its a girl thing. All girls do it. Sad thing is they say men do it. Well thats bull. Girls do it much more then men ever have.
Wait, I'm confused. Are you angry that they find other people physically attractive? If so, that's REALLY unfair of you. I don't understand why people people get angry over that. Do they think that just people one person is in love with the other, that they suddenly only have eyes for you? OK, maybe in the emotional sense, yes, but they ARE going to check out other people; it's just a fact. Don't try to say you don't do it, too. You should become worried when they start suggesting messing with said guys or even start actually doing it; then it's cheating. But really, what's wrong with looking? Despite waht you'd like to think, you can't satisfy your girl/boyfriend 100% physically, imo anyway. Even when I'm in a relationship with a guy, we're always like, "Wow, he's hot." or "He has a nice body". Maybe it's different 'cause we can agree with each other? I dunno. I just don't see why you're getting all bent out of shape about it.
(01-14-2010, 07:17 PM)Elektrisk Wrote: [ -> ]Wait, I'm confused. Are you angry that they find other people physically attractive? If so, that's REALLY unfair of you. I don't understand why people people get angry over that. Do they think that just people one person is in love with the other, that they suddenly only have eyes for you? OK, maybe in the emotional sense, yes, but they ARE going to check out other people; it's just a fact. Don't try to say you don't do it, too. You should become worried when they start suggesting messing with said guys or even start actually doing it; then it's cheating. But really, what's wrong with looking? Despite waht you'd like to think, you can't satisfy your girl/boyfriend 100% physically, imo anyway. Even when I'm in a relationship with a guy, we're always like, "Wow, he's hot." or "He has a nice body". Maybe it's different 'cause we can agree with each other? I dunno. I just don't see why you're getting all bent out of shape about it.
I guess you're right. Right now I'm going through an emotional break-down. I don't know what to feel/say/do/think any more. I feel like a rag that's been rung out.
Quote:I guess you're right. Right now I'm going through an emotional break-down. I don't know what to feel/say/do/think any more. I feel like a rag that's been rung out.
I apologise. But I mean, it's like how girls get mad at guys for watching porn. It's so trivial.
(01-14-2010, 07:26 PM)Elektrisk Wrote: [ -> ]I apologise. But I mean, it's like how girls get mad at guys for watching porn. It's so trivial.
LOL, that's why I don't watch porn while I'm dating. And please... there is not need to apologise! That was actually very helpful.
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(01-14-2010, 07:17 PM)Elektrisk Wrote: [ -> ]Wait, I'm confused. Are you angry that they find other people physically attractive? If so, that's REALLY unfair of you. I don't understand why people people get angry over that. Do they think that just people one person is in love with the other, that they suddenly only have eyes for you? OK, maybe in the emotional sense, yes, but they ARE going to check out other people; it's just a fact. Don't try to say you don't do it, too. You should become worried when they start suggesting messing with said guys or even start actually doing it; then it's cheating. But really, what's wrong with looking? Despite waht you'd like to think, you can't satisfy your girl/boyfriend 100% physically, imo anyway. Even when I'm in a relationship with a guy, we're always like, "Wow, he's hot." or "He has a nice body". Maybe it's different 'cause we can agree with each other? I dunno. I just don't see why you're getting all bent out of shape about it.
Agreed 100% - Couldn't of said it better imho.
I'm totally with Elektrisk on this one!
There have been few Girls that were getting mad at me when I would be looking at/after other Girls...
Now to be Honest, I see an female body (being) as an true work of Art, ofcourse Girls like Jessica Alba.... There are many Girls that are sweet/cute/sexy and what not, these days they also have awsome clothing, and all-in packet just looks totally awsome....
The same way with Guys, though I'm not looking at guys... But it's the same situation, a Girl doesn't need to look at a Guy and immediately love him, same as I look at Girls that pass right by me without feeling anything or having any desires... I just think, wow shes hot, that's all!
I guess in most cases it's same with Girls, "That dude looks awsome"!
Now that's the way I'm build and it's how I think, my GF should understand that and she need to handle that, I broke up with those who couldn't...
For real, I'm hanging out with friends or walking down the street and my GF starts, "Hey she looks hot", I just say "Hell yeah!".. and she doesn't mind, because we trust each other and because I also don't mind when she does the same....
IMO, you should talk about this topic with your GF and go more into depth...
Becuase it's just looking and thinking, nothing you two should worry about, it's not like shes going to get the dudes number and call him the same moment you go off somewhere.... She won't even see him again in here live most probably!
The way I look at it is it's like window shopping, you can look but you can't buy anything.
(01-15-2010, 02:28 AM)Grizzly Wrote: [ -> ]The way I look at it is it's like window shopping, you can look but you can't buy anything.
Yeah that's how it is... Looking is fine as long as you don't move on and do the next step.