(01-03-2010, 03:03 AM)awil Wrote: [ -> ]Did you recognized him when you open the door??
I heard that being an army isn't easy, but it's the best way to serve the country.
Nope no idea.
I was like "Who are you what ya want" lol.
Even when he said his name i had to think for a second.
That must've felt amazing bro. Hope those visits become more regular.
(01-03-2010, 10:46 PM)Aristotle Wrote: [ -> ]That must've felt amazing bro. Hope those visits become more regular.
Thanks mate. Yes i hope to keep in contact for the rest of my life.
But its early days. He may just think i am a prick and not bother lol.
lol. My dads a prick, but i doubt i'll cut out contact.
I love my dad, and I think your son love you to. If not, why should he searching for you after 7 years be apart.
(01-04-2010, 12:35 AM)Aristotle Wrote: [ -> ]lol. My dads a prick, but i doubt i'll cut out contact.
I dont think he thinks that though. I remember the last time i saw him we went to a car parts shop and the store bloke asked him if i was his dad and he said. "He is not just my dad but the best dad in the world"
So i know he remembered me as a good father and i have not changed really so i dont expect that to change.
Never know though. Religion got involved at this stage and thus the no contact
I know he does still have some religious side to him but i did not explore that as its his choice and i dont want to get involved in that.
(01-04-2010, 01:43 AM)awil Wrote: [ -> ]I love my dad, and I think your son love you to. If not, why should he searching for you after 7 years be apart.
Honestly i suspect he come to me simply because he is going to the army.
I live in the same house i did 7 years ago and he could have come any time.
Still i take what i can get and are really happy to see the boy...... Oops Man lol. <- Quite weird i tells ya.
Did he give you his msn or anything? Try adding him on facebook even
I dont do facebook. I do have a family website with domain name same as surname which i told him to go to. He said he will. And he gave me his mobile number.
Might take a pic of myself actually and send him an sms. Just so he has one and hopefully he sends one back.
I really dont want to overstep my mark though. Must be hard for him if its hard for me?
Unless he really was looking forward to seeing you again, and had you all wrong in his head, (He was younger memories tend not to stay the exact same as they were as actions) But thats also assuming he obessed over it
. Most likely though, its just as weird as it is for him.
Wow that was bad english..