05-24-2017, 10:17 PM
Hi my names Robert I just turned 29 a few weeks ago.
I think I'm having problems in my life, I'm starting to feel left behind.
My problem is I have social anxiety and it sometimes gets bad to the point it effects my life choices.
Basically my current problem is that for all of my teens and early 20's I hid away from the world I only went where I needed to go and back home.
Now in my late 20's I'm finding problems.
I had a 2 month relationship end because in had no goals in life, no ambitions other than getting to my 9 to 5 just above minimum wage job and back home. I grew up with no one asking what I wanted to be so I never gave it a 2nd thought.
Now here I am again going to start dating again and this girl has her life planned out she is a few years younger than me and has just graduated and about to start school for either MD or to become a councler and here I am high school drop out with a ged and no Ideal on where I want to go in life, how to even start, or even if it's too late to start one more year and I'm 30.
Have I failed at life?
How did you guys figure out what you want to be or do and how do I find out for myself what I want.
I start to get really depressed when I ask myself questions like "do i want to be this" or "do i I want to do that".
I think I'm having problems in my life, I'm starting to feel left behind.
My problem is I have social anxiety and it sometimes gets bad to the point it effects my life choices.
Basically my current problem is that for all of my teens and early 20's I hid away from the world I only went where I needed to go and back home.
Now in my late 20's I'm finding problems.
I had a 2 month relationship end because in had no goals in life, no ambitions other than getting to my 9 to 5 just above minimum wage job and back home. I grew up with no one asking what I wanted to be so I never gave it a 2nd thought.
Now here I am again going to start dating again and this girl has her life planned out she is a few years younger than me and has just graduated and about to start school for either MD or to become a councler and here I am high school drop out with a ged and no Ideal on where I want to go in life, how to even start, or even if it's too late to start one more year and I'm 30.
Have I failed at life?
How did you guys figure out what you want to be or do and how do I find out for myself what I want.
I start to get really depressed when I ask myself questions like "do i want to be this" or "do i I want to do that".
