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(02-13-2012, 09:13 AM)Sam Wrote: [ -> ]Consider it a blessing Damink. I'm sure it'll be a struggle at first. You've had first hand experience more than once but remember there is no way you'll regret it the second he/she is born.

Best of luck to you which ever way it goes and give my respect to your family (for what it's worth lol). It sounds like you've got a great family and from what I've seen you're both really good parents. (This based on your concern for education and welfare in previous threads + You're a great bloke)

Yay for Damink! (That for both outcomes )

Thanks mate i appreciate it
We are yet to be "sure" Everyone i speak to says the doctors test is far more accurate than the home tests so expect a baby lol.
I really dont mind. Scarey in some ways sure. But ultimately i work and the wife will have to wear alot of the stress unfortunately.
However again we are not sure at this stage. Either we picked it up early or its a false from the doctors. Not sure which yet.
Waiting on blood tests to determine for sure

(02-13-2012, 02:29 PM)///ViNcE Wrote: [ -> ]If all comes down, maybe look into adoption or someone else raising???

Could never ever do that. Just not in my nature.
I will do whatever is needed as a father to provide for my kids no matter how many i have.
I once used to joke i want a football team lol. I really did.
Now im not so sure

Thankyou all for your replies and i will update when i know more.

Best of luck mate.
I am sure you will find the strength you need.
~ven0m

Ya, I know what you mean, you got a good paying job right now???

As a 17 year old, I'd abort the fudge out of it. Think about it D, is it really worth putting yourselves through this kind of stress? If you get rid of it right now, it virtually will not have even been alive yet...

I would say congratulations, but because of your situation I guess that wouldn't be the right word? If you truly can't afford another child (I can imagine how stressful 4-5 would be, never mind a 6th addition) then I guess you could do what ViNcE said. Look into adoption or get a friend/family member to raise him/her.

Good luck with this one DAMINK, hope it turns out well.

Abortions should never be the answer but I believe of course it is still legal & we all make them choices.

Breath in, Breath out. Relax. Everything is going to work itself out, If you didn't use protection this should be gods way of telling you... use protection! Everything will be fine in the end, do not stress yourself out

wow 6 child you sure do love each other.Maybe an adoption or something would be an suggestion?