(12-17-2011, 04:18 PM)iDiDiT Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, just because it "could be worse" doesn't mean its not bad, and I said that. I'm saying look at it from another perspective. I kept thinking it wasn't going to get worse, and then things keep on getting worse. I thought, "god says he wont make more things happen you cant take.." complete christian bs. There isn't anything in the world you "cant take". You have no choice as a human. The best thing to do is get thicker skin. I'm being forward with you, not careless. Its the best way to help you, not sugar coat it and say, "you are right it sucks." Though you are, stop showing guys your boobs, get some books, and study with some other goth kids. Unless you are a little masochistic. Either way
I'm not a Christian.
I don't show guys my boobs, I finished school. It's not going to get better just by going through the motions.
(12-17-2011, 12:45 PM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]I appreciate what you're saying, I really do, but you can't make these judgments without knowing my entire situation, which you don't. I know I sound like every 16 year old since 16 year olds happened, but it isn't like that.
And no, I don't have "a friend or two," unless you count guys on the internet that I met on video games who only talk to me because I have boobs.
I'm sorry I misunderstood, and I did not mean you are christian, it is just a socially acceptable belief.
(12-17-2011, 07:20 PM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]I'm not a Christian.
I don't show guys my boobs, I finished school. It's not going to get better just by going through the motions.
So what are some of these things about your situation that I do not know about ?
(12-17-2011, 11:41 PM)iDiDiT Wrote: [ -> ]I'm sorry I misunderstood, and I did not mean you are christian, it is just a socially acceptable belief.
(12-17-2011, 07:20 PM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]I'm not a Christian.
I don't show guys my boobs, I finished school. It's not going to get better just by going through the motions.
So what are some of these things about your situation that I do not know about ?
I would really rather not post it online.
(12-18-2011, 12:02 AM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]So what are some of these things about your situation that I do not know about ?
I would really rather not post it online.
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OK, well the last thing I will leave you with is this. Try to appreciate the things that are good in your life. Sure times are hard, we are lonely, hurting, and angry. Just remember to be thankful for what the things are that make your life better. Being able to wake up in the morning to a fresh new day, each day, is like a chance to start anew. Maybe you have a decent phone, or a favorite book, t.v. show, or movie that you like or enjoy having. Maybe some days just feel good to have the choice to stay home, or go on a walk.
Ya, you feel sick, ya you were taken advantage of, ya there are times when everyone around you is unfair, and laugh and joke and seem to completely disregard that you are suffering. By giving them that power to let yourself able to feel beat up, doesnt help any more than 'going through the motions'. Have you ever seen the movie "The Secret"? Its instant on Netflix and I suggest you give it a shot.
Plenty of people are going through the kind of stuff you have been, there always will be. Also nobody gives a crap about anybody. I was reading Kevin Mitnicks autobiography and his very best friends gave him up to the fbi over and over. They didnt care about HIM when it came right down to it, and that is just HOW IT IS. When we start growing up we think its this world of "peace", and "happiness", and then when it doesnt happen for us we think we are outcasted. When really you are the most normal of all.
First off, Kevin Mitnick was a social engineer, and his very best friend never gave him away, others did but not that obese guy whose name I don't remember.
@Cykn, he's right, but in order to make life worth living you have to set a goal. Mine is too become a helicopter pilot, that's why I'm in school, and why I live through everything, because once I can take flight lessons, I will, and I'll be the best helo pilot. Why? Well, why not? If you put enough effort in almost anything is possible.
Also, if you need a netflix account PM me, and I'll send you the login details.
(It's not mine, I'm "borrowing it).
Just be yourself, evolve into whatever God has planned for you. Don't worry about others, be the change YOU seek in the world.
(12-18-2011, 01:48 PM)System Meltdown Wrote: [ -> ]Just be yourself, evolve into whatever God has planned for you. Don't worry about others, be the change YOU seek in the world.
Whose self would I otherwise be being?
I'm not a Christian.
(12-18-2011, 10:28 AM)Vasily Zaitsev Wrote: [ -> ]First off, Kevin Mitnick was a social engineer, and his very best friend never gave him away, others did but not that obese guy whose name I don't remember.
@Cykn, he's right, but in order to make life worth living you have to set a goal. Mine is too become a helicopter pilot, that's why I'm in school, and why I live through everything, because once I can take flight lessons, I will, and I'll be the best helo pilot. Why? Well, why not? If you put enough effort in almost anything is possible.
Also, if you need a netflix account PM me, and I'll send you the login details.
(It's not mine, I'm "borrowing it).
I don't know what I want. I can't set goals. I don't want to anyways, I'll just fudge it up.
(12-18-2011, 02:29 PM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]Whose self would I otherwise be being?
I'm not a Christian.
(12-18-2011, 10:28 AM)Vasily Zaitsev Wrote: [ -> ]First off, Kevin Mitnick was a social engineer, and his very best friend never gave him away, others did but not that obese guy whose name I don't remember.
@Cykn, he's right, but in order to make life worth living you have to set a goal. Mine is too become a helicopter pilot, that's why I'm in school, and why I live through everything, because once I can take flight lessons, I will, and I'll be the best helo pilot. Why? Well, why not? If you put enough effort in almost anything is possible.
Also, if you need a netflix account PM me, and I'll send you the login details.
(It's not mine, I'm "borrowing it).
I don't know what I want. I can't set goals. I don't want to anyways, I'll just fudge it up.
I'm just saying, you seem to be more worried about how others are living their lives and less focused on how you're going to live yours.
(12-18-2011, 12:23 AM)iDiDiT Wrote: [ -> ]I would really rather not post it online.
OK, well the last thing I will leave you with is this. Try to appreciate the things that are good in your life. Sure times are hard, we are lonely, hurting, and angry. Just remember to be thankful for what the things are that make your life better. Being able to wake up in the morning to a fresh new day, each day, is like a chance to start anew. Maybe you have a decent phone, or a favorite book, t.v. show, or movie that you like or enjoy having. Maybe some days just feel good to have the choice to stay home, or go on a walk.
Ya, you feel sick, ya you were taken advantage of, ya there are times when everyone around you is unfair, and laugh and joke and seem to completely disregard that you are suffering. By giving them that power to let yourself able to feel beat up, doesnt help any more than 'going through the motions'. Have you ever seen the movie "The Secret"? Its instant on Netflix and I suggest you give it a shot.
Plenty of people are going through the kind of stuff you have been, there always will be. Also nobody gives a crap about anybody. I was reading Kevin Mitnicks autobiography and his very best friends gave him up to the fbi over and over. They didnt care about HIM when it came right down to it, and that is just HOW IT IS. When we start growing up we think its this world of "peace", and "happiness", and then when it doesnt happen for us we think we are outcasted. When really you are the most normal of all.
You're right. I need to appreciate things more. I don't know why that's so hard for me. Thank you, I needed that.
But I give a fudge about other people. Why wouldn't you? That's terrible.
(12-18-2011, 02:32 PM)System Meltdown Wrote: [ -> ]I'm just saying, you seem to be more worried about how others are living their lives and less focused on how you're going to live yours.
I don't care how I live mine.
OK
(12-18-2011, 02:35 PM)Cykn Wrote: [ -> ]You're right. I need to appreciate things more. I don't know why that's so hard for me. Thank you, I needed that.
But I give a fudge about other people. Why wouldn't you? That's terrible.
I care about other people, I have just been back stabbed, lied to, disrespected, ignored, stood up, ditched, and used enough to make me jaded. I think that happens to goodlooking 'nice' people.
(12-18-2011, 10:28 AM)Vasily Zaitsev Wrote: [ -> ]First off, Kevin Mitnick was a social engineer, and his very best friend never gave him away, others did but not that obese guy whose name I don't remember.
Well, his best friend from youth was Lewis De Payne who stole his wife while he was in Prison and ratted him out to the FBI more than once, so I don't know what you think you know, but you should read "Ghost in the Wires", Kevin Mitnicks autobiography, and yes they remained friends even after this.