(12-22-2010, 01:18 PM)SleepyTroll Wrote: [ -> ]From the way I see it. This girl is a whore. She just seems to enjoy having sex. Just because she hasn't had sex with you doesn't mean she won't. Have you tried getting her to have sex with you? Like have you come onto her in that way? I haven't seen you mention anything much about your efforts in the situation here. If you wait for her to make the first move you'll probably never have sex with her.
Also about the nocturnal thing. I was this way last summer and I understand he doing your own thing, thing. It's so much more chill and relaxing at night. No one to harass you to do petty things. I usually went to bed at 6am and woke up anywhere from 3- 5pm. Then stayed up till 6 am - 9am again.
She's not a whore. She's 19 and has had sex with 4 guys. That's not to bad.
Quote:If you wait for her to make the first move you'll probably never have sex with her.
I find that unlikely, mainly because she's the one that made the decision to cheat on her BF with me and she initiated our first kiss. She said to me once "You know, we would have easily ended up having sex." Not in a whore way, but in a "I really like you." way. The only reason we didn't is because of her BF lol.
I think I found one of the very few women that don't care about looks in the slightest.
This is a picture of her current boyfriend.
http://min.us/mvfYYQi
That's my current competition. I'm far better looking, and thinner than him. But I'm now 90% sure I don't want any kind of sexual contact with her. Like, if she gets with guys because of their personality it's for 1 or 2 of 2 reasons. Either she really don't care what people look like. Or, she has some emotional problems.
That'd be a good idea to investigate further, actually, but he could just be a really nice guy. Never know what inspires someone to get with someone else.
I know she goes for personality. The first time she talked about him she said he wasn't attractive. Then they started emailing each other, met up, had sex and now they're in a relationship. My little inner percentage of how much I don't want to have sex with her is going up. Before I saw the picture, it was 90%. After I saw the picture and drew conclusions as to what kind of girl she is, it's not 95%-98%.
It's entirely up to you, but I'm glad you decided not to go through with it.
Well in this 2 months you really need to work on your confidence and don't be afraid to snatch up that girl.
There's 24 days until she gets back, I'm pretty sure I'll decide to not have sex with her.
If she cheated, she must really like you.
Her exact words were "I didn't want to have any regrets before I left." Doesn't sound like she really liked me lol.