11-20-2010, 02:30 PM
Ahhh, this topic has always been one that I had troubles with for a great period of time until I finally took the time and put a majority of things to the test so that I could help others with this subject.
Alright, when you speak to her in person how do you typically feel?
I am not speaking about "heart-pounding-through-your-chest-cavity' kind of a feeling, I am referring to an emotion.
Do you feel happy, feel neutral?
When you are not with her nor around her do you think about her?
If so, in what sense do you think about her? -- Like, does your mind begin to consider what events and actions would take place if you two were to have sex? I surely would hope not.
Although, note: it is okay to think about sex when you like the individual!
Just don't that be the primary thought. ;)
Alright, when you speak to her in person how do you typically feel?
I am not speaking about "heart-pounding-through-your-chest-cavity' kind of a feeling, I am referring to an emotion.
Do you feel happy, feel neutral?
When you are not with her nor around her do you think about her?
If so, in what sense do you think about her? -- Like, does your mind begin to consider what events and actions would take place if you two were to have sex? I surely would hope not.
Although, note: it is okay to think about sex when you like the individual!
Just don't that be the primary thought. ;)