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So me and this chick talk every night for like hours, a few nights ago she asked me to be her bf. Im really not sure if i like her or if i prefer just friends... How do i tell?

i personally think if you have to ask then you dont like her enough to date.

(11-14-2010, 03:54 PM)Guest Wrote: [ -> ]So me and this chick talk every night for like hours, a few nights ago she asked me to be her bf. Im really not sure if i like her or if i prefer just friends... How do i tell?

I know how you feel. I think the best way to tell her is just to come out and say, i like you. But, that is just something i would do myself. Hope it works out.

(11-14-2010, 03:57 PM)Skylit Wrote: [ -> ]I know how you feel. I think the best way to tell her is just to come out and say, i like you. But, that is just something i would do myself. Hope it works out.

OP is me
Yea i guess ill do that, and if things feel "weird" then i guess its over

If you are having confusion if you want to be more than friends, I would suggest you tell her you would like to just remain friends. That way, you can get to know her better, and still have the possibility of forming a partnership. While if you form one now, it potentially could interfere with a friendship.

Think about that.

Just take her out on a date.
Doesn't need to be anything romantic, just to see what's up.

You don't seem too sure about it, so i think you should take it easy for a couple of days, then see how it goes from there.

Well if that's the only girl that you talk to, than give it a try. If it doesn't than you can always break up.

Do you feel longing when you dont talk for a few days?
Do you feel like you'd do anything for her?
do you want to be with her no matter what happens or what anybody says?

If you answer yes to those questions than you can give yourself the answer
thats what i personally think

If you're not sure, then you don't.